Some of my friends I have mentioned it to think we're real killjoys, missing out etc and I am beginning to wonder if they're right and perhaps xmas may feel a bit 'flat' without gifts?
There is nobody under 20 in our family now.
We've decided to not buy one another anything, cards only.
I am so relieved. Reasons including, none of us bloody need anything and if we did, we'd just go and buy it!
We all get stressed out trying to buy the 'perfect' present for one another. We often buy piles and piles of them for each person!
It takes up time and energy.
To be fair to us, we don't buy 'tat' and most things are well received and get used but still, It's still stuff we don't particularly need, spending money we don't need to, time we're better spending doing other things.
Does anyone else do this, I am sure I've seen it mentioned on previous threads.
I am wondering if perhaps I should suggest that instead of 'no presents' It's 'only edible ones (food/booze)? Or only one present under £20?
AIBU?
To be so glad my family aren't doing presents for adults for xmas this year?
Noodge · 25/09/2022 06:58
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLNonametomorrow · 25/09/2022 07:01
What about secret Santa? That way everyone gets something to open.
We do secret Santa for adults and spend about £40-50 so the person gets something nice (not a crappy secret Santa that one would normally think of).
Less waste, less panic buying.
hattie43 · 25/09/2022 07:15
I'd hate a no present Christmas. I love choosing things , wrapping etc and seeing people love what they're given .
Each to their own but a magical part would be missing I think
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