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Should I tip the pizza delivery person?

320 replies

JamesBondOO7 · 22/09/2022 20:18

Tomorrow I'm ordering pizza from Dominos
I usually leave to our children but I'm doing this
I will be ordering approx 85 quids worth of food for
6 of us inc 2 toddlers. As we are paying online
and IMO the bill is lager than the usal 50-sh after discounts - I will feel bad not tipping the man/woman

A quid is not right but then I'm thinking why should I as I', pay 2 quid (1-99) in delivery and the employer should be paying a proper wage

It will be easier not to tip as paying online but I don't want the delivery person
giving me faces etc though that would make it easier for me later ie not giving a tip

What do you think but I'm almost a 100% cert I won't

(on the odd occasion we eat out we tip 10% but it does hurt.

OP posts:
Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 22:37

Did you ever think that maybe you SHOULD be tipping those other people you mentioned? If you cannot afford to tip then dont eat out. Youre not even arguing that they should be tipped if they deserve it, you’re purely saying they shouldnt be tipped

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 22:39

Regardless, as this convo has derailed, OP never mentioned that they are hard pressed for money. They merely said they refuse to tip since they don’t consider delivering a difficult job

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 22:41

OP has given no indication that they’re hard pressed for money. They merely said that they don’t believe delivery is a difficult job and that they’d much rather spend that money on themselves. I don’t blame anyone that’s low income for not tipping but OP has stated numerous times they have the ability to tip and they just choose not to.

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 22:45

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 22:39

Regardless, as this convo has derailed, OP never mentioned that they are hard pressed for money. They merely said they refuse to tip since they don’t consider delivering a difficult job

Why should I have mentioned I was "hard pressed" for money when I'm spending that kind of money on pizza?

My posts are clear and nowhere does it mention that I could not afford the tip but it is the priciple.

OP posts:
YesitsBess · 24/09/2022 23:05

OP you’ve had loads of people telling you that tipping a delivery driver is not expected but makes a difference to those people (I think the general thought process that they are either kids on a first job or ‘losers’ who can’t do any better doesn’t help) because…it does?

Dominos never recompensed the scratches on my car when I worked there from having to have the magnetic sign on my roof (or we didn’t get paid premium mileage). I retrained during that period and now have a great job, I always tip the driver because I know how hard and humiliating those days were some days, nothing worse than driving to a really rural million pound house in the arse end of nowhere and having “Thanks!” and a door slammed in your face as soon as you handed over their food, especially if it took 45 mins to find and you lost 5 easy local jobs in the meantime.

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:06

I can understand not tipping when you can’t afford it, but being able to afford it and choosing not to because you don’t consider it a real job is elitist. When you have the ability to do something good and choose not to it says a lot about you as a person. Thats always been my point.

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:07

Consider the principle of being good to others. Your ideals are twisted here.

dianthus101 · 24/09/2022 23:13

SeemsSoUnfair · 24/09/2022 21:55

The drivers don't see any of the newly introduced £2 delivery. They get the same £1.30 per delivery they always got. For that £1.30 they are expected to provide their own car, pay for their own fuel and wear and tear on their car, put the dominos sign on their car. And dominos only covers them for 3rd party insurance. The £1.30 doesn't cover it all so their costs eat into their £6.83 minimum wage.

The wage is usually at least £9.50. Where I live, each delivery would usually be about a mile each way and rarely more than three miles. The £1.50 per delivery would cover fuel for that and wear and tear.

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 23:17

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:06

I can understand not tipping when you can’t afford it, but being able to afford it and choosing not to because you don’t consider it a real job is elitist. When you have the ability to do something good and choose not to it says a lot about you as a person. Thats always been my point.

Which part of not tipping as a principle do you find hard to grasp?
Which part of my choice not tipping do you find unclear?

As others have stated, why should I pay on behalf of their employee

final point, do these driver share their tips with those working just as hard if not harder sweating their b's off in the kitchen that are on the same rate as they are?

Sincerely, thank you for entrenching my stance not to pay the pizza guy this time or ever, a big thank you.

OP posts:
Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:21

A) its a shit principle
B) its your choice but it does not make you look good at all- were you expecting everyone here to praise you with absolutely no pushback?
C) not tipping does nothing to increase their wage and is a net loss to the worker
D) they don’t have to share their tips with kitchen staff since the tip is for delivery
E) as numerous other delivery drivers have mentioned, they always tip driver since they know how difficult the job is and is clearly something you’ve never had to experience
F) Don’t pretend like you ever tip the driver since you’ve laid out numerous examples of not tipping so that threat means absolutely nothing to me and makes you look extremely petty

well thanks for laying out for all of this feed to see just how shallow of a person you are. Well done

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 23:22

Thank you, you've made my day.

OP posts:
Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:24

I’d be more than happy to do it again anytime, message me directly next time so you don’t have to waste your time :)

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 23:30

You need me not the other way around so I will let you follow me.
Sincerely, you've made my day.

OP posts:
Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:31

I’ll pass, I’ll see you next time you decide to ask the forum if its okay to kick a puppy that keeps pissing on your lawn. Enjoy yourself.

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 23:36

I'll leave that to you as I will stick with tipping the pizza guy or not as the outcome now is.

Free tip. You must try harder.

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DontTrustThisPoster · 24/09/2022 23:38

Well you made the news anyway, op @JamesBondOO7

www.newsweek.com/debate-rages-customer-refuses-tip-pizza-delivery-driver-ninety-five-dollars-order-1745604?amp=1

JamesBondOO7 · 24/09/2022 23:44

DontTrustThisPoster · 24/09/2022 23:38

@DontTrustThisPoster

Incredible that is a second one - the first one was a few weeks ago in the daily mail - my inlaws have named their after me.

Appreciated

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SeemsSoUnfair · 24/09/2022 23:51

dianthus101 · 24/09/2022 23:13

The wage is usually at least £9.50. Where I live, each delivery would usually be about a mile each way and rarely more than three miles. The £1.50 per delivery would cover fuel for that and wear and tear.

Ds is 18 so gets min wage did 18 year olds which is £6.83 as a Dominos delivery driver, several of their drivers are under 21 and get the same. £1.30 is for trips that can be up to 5 miles each way. They get £1.70 when they deliver to a village 6.5 miles each way

DontTrustThisPoster · 24/09/2022 23:51

You’re on a roll mate 🤣

Tenner if you can make it a hat trick by Halloween! Lol

Blrrrd · 24/09/2022 23:54

considering you’re too pussy to answer the door yourself and choose to let your son do your dirty work, I could cate less what you think.

Tuilpmouse · 25/09/2022 00:17

ShandaLear · 22/09/2022 20:48

It wouldn’t cross my mind to tip. I don’t tip the Tesco delivery person, or the Amazon delivery person, or the postman, so how is this different? Is it like a pity tip?

I always find it odd that people tip the delivery driver. It's absolutely a "pity tip".

Do people tip the petrol station assistant when they fill up? Or Tesco's shop assistant. What about the bus driver or the postman? Maybe I should have tipped the pall bearers at the funeral i went to last week, or the lifeguard at the swimming pool.

We have a national minimum wage in the U.K. and there are over 1 million job vacancies across the U.K.

Tuilpmouse · 25/09/2022 00:22

TooHotToRamble · 24/09/2022 20:10

I am struggling to understand why people think food delivery workers deserve a tip any more than any other low paid service worker?

They don't, but it's a "thing" on MN... and people don't want to feel like they're being mean, so they do.

Iwanttoholdyourham · 25/09/2022 00:41

"Domino's has been contacted for comment."

"Newsweek was not able to verify the details of the case."

Well, of course. How are you going to verify a case when it's just a thread you stole from an open anonymous forum?

FWIW, @JamesBondOO7 , I'm a generous tipper in restaurants, but I don't usually tip a delivery driver either. It's not a very long journey, and they don't do anything special other than their jobs. I tip servers in restaurants because they interact with me and my dining companion(s) and make sure we get food we're not allergic to etc - there's an element of personal service there.

I don't tip Amazon couriers, but if they follow the delivery instructions, I rate them a thumbs up in the app. And whilst I don't tip Tesco drivers (in that case, mainly because I don't think they're allowed to accept tips), if they are lovely, I send good feedback to their store.

Sometimes a much better tip is a compliment to someone's manager.

VroomVrooom · 25/09/2022 01:04

Surely the most desirable outcome is that everyone is paid a decent wage, and so tipping becomes obsolete.

The issue is, that some jobs will never provide a living wage, because they’re not designed to. Pizza delivery drivers are almost always students or people supplementing another job.

But ultimately - everyone should be paid a fair wage for a job decently done. And that should be the end of it.

Then - if people want to tip, they can. But nobody should be obliged, or - in the case of this thread - guilted into it.

I don’t want - nor expect - to be tipped for doing my job, and I find the notion of throwing some poorly-paid minion a couple of dollars to do their ‘lowly’ job (because it is only the jobs we as a society seem to be lowly), to be so cringey.

There is something incredibly patronising and classist about the practice.

dianthus101 · 25/09/2022 08:31

SeemsSoUnfair · 24/09/2022 23:51

Ds is 18 so gets min wage did 18 year olds which is £6.83 as a Dominos delivery driver, several of their drivers are under 21 and get the same. £1.30 is for trips that can be up to 5 miles each way. They get £1.70 when they deliver to a village 6.5 miles each way

I think they are franchises so what they pay may vary but my local Domino's pays all delivery drivers the same wage. I have young adult children myself and that's something they always watch out for when applying for jobs. Not all companies take advantage of the fact that they can pay 18 year olds less than 25 year olds.

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