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To mow the lawn tomorrow?

184 replies

Lunificent · 18/09/2022 14:12

I planned to do it today but it’s raining. I’m not going to do it during the funeral but would I be unreasonable to do it later in the day tomorrow?

OP posts:
70billionthnamechange · 18/09/2022 21:33

@CapMarvel they're obvs being sarcastic. If they're not, I give up 😂

CapMarvel · 18/09/2022 21:33

WhileMyGuitarGentlyWeeps · 18/09/2022 21:30

I think you 'I will mow the lawn when the Queen's funeral is on cuz I can - so THERE!' posters are up waaaay past your bedtime. Off you pop now. Get your jammies on!

Aww bless. Off you go and polish your Diana plates.

TempNameChangexx · 18/09/2022 21:34

I'm planning to do mine about 10am, before the main funeral coverage gets underway
I wouldn't do it during the funeral though as it would definitely disturb any neighbours who were inside watching it

70billionthnamechange · 18/09/2022 21:34

@CapMarvel oh wait, the jokes on me, I realise now you knew it was a joke. Or im just so fricking confused I don't know anymore

gnilliwdog · 18/09/2022 21:35

User1754983 · 18/09/2022 21:28

That council link above means drilling and really loud diy noise not lawn mowing

Yes, I did say lawn mowing is probably OK. The link actually only specifies when DIY work can be carried out, but obviously nobody will even notice you doing some painting.

tigger1001 · 18/09/2022 21:36

Would love someone to explain why doing gardening work, including mowing the grass lacks respect and common decency.

It doesn't. It doesn't stop others from watching the funeral.

Funerals happen every day. I can guarantee I have been mowing the grass when a funeral is taking place.

A football team near us has their training grounds near a crematorium- should they stop training while funerals are going on? Same crematorium is close to both a motorway and a major supermarket - neither are quiet during services.

Our local church is right across the road from a school - should the kids not be allowed out to play if there is a funeral? Or should the church not schedule funerals at that time?

TheHateIsNotGood · 18/09/2022 21:36

The thing is that actually very few people will mow there lawns tomorrow because most people know that it is a bit of a sombre day.

If it makes you feel all self-righteously better to mow your lawn, carry on, but do so knowing the risk that you will likely become known as a dickhead.

Anonymouseposter · 18/09/2022 21:38

I am not particularly in favour of having a monarchy at all but I wouldn't do anything very noisy during the time of the actual funeral.
Later in the afternoon I don't think there's any problem even if you want to use a pneumatic drill.

DappledThings · 18/09/2022 21:40

TheHateIsNotGood · 18/09/2022 21:36

The thing is that actually very few people will mow there lawns tomorrow because most people know that it is a bit of a sombre day.

If it makes you feel all self-righteously better to mow your lawn, carry on, but do so knowing the risk that you will likely become known as a dickhead.

I really doubt it. I don't think I'd notice what anyone else is doing tomorrow. Our lawn doesn't need mowing but there's lots more out there that needs weeding and chopping down. If we have the energy to be up early enough to be doing that before we go out for a walk with relatives we will.

It's a normal thing to do on a day that for thousands of people is a normal bank holiday.

Nobody is doing it to make a point. They're doing it because sitting quietly inside isn't compulsory and lots of people would rather just crack on as normal. Which is totally fine.

User1754983 · 18/09/2022 21:43

Since everything is closed, people really only have two choices, do the the everyday jobs in the house or garden or watch telly. I shall be getting on with doing stuff so as not to waste the day

SpringGreenShine · 18/09/2022 21:44

Lunificent · 18/09/2022 14:12

I planned to do it today but it’s raining. I’m not going to do it during the funeral but would I be unreasonable to do it later in the day tomorrow?

Quite honestly, you should be out trimming it with black ribbon, like the rest of us, and should be pretty ashamed, that you haven’t done it already

allboysherebutme · 18/09/2022 21:51

Do It before it starts. X

TheHateIsNotGood · 18/09/2022 21:53

Well of course on a normal Bank Holiday it is totally fine, I'm often using loud tools myself. I suppose if people have large enough gardens to have big, proper Lawns then their neighbours are far enough away to not be disturbed any way.

But it isn't a normal Bank Holiday is it? It's a day off granted on a Monday (tomorrow) for the late Queen's Funeral which the majority of workers/students can enjoy either watching the funeral or cracking on with their lives. Even anti-monarchists get the day off if their job allows.

So very few really need to mow their lawns/little scraps of grass tomorrow and I for one won't be telling any mowing person to stop, but I'll note that you're a bit of a dickhead and I'm sure I wouldn't be the only one.

TheFormidableMrsC · 18/09/2022 21:57

I put off doing this and other desperately needed outside jobs today to go to London to lay flowers. I won't do it tomorrow largely because I want to watch the funeral and also need a rest after walking a gazillion miles today. I'll do it after school on Tuesday as long as it's dry. However, you do you, it's perfectly fine!!

DappledThings · 18/09/2022 21:58

I'll note that you're a bit of a dickhead and I'm sure I wouldn't be the only one.
I'm fine with that!

CapMarvel · 18/09/2022 22:10

"I'll note that you're a bit of a dickhead and I'm sure I wouldn't be the only one."

This kind of shit needs to stop. We've had 10 days of fawning, mournehub and people talking fucking nonsense about rainbows magically appearing.

Not all of us hold the royals up on some sort of pedestal. You sit at home and watch the funeral if you want but if other people want to get on with their days they are not dickheads for doing so, FFS.

DuckonaBike · 18/09/2022 22:15

I can no longer tell who is serious and who is being sarcastic on threads like this.

Just on the off chance the OP is serious, yes of course you can mow your lawn.

Could we all get back to normal soon please?

LilyPeace · 18/09/2022 22:19

"That could be any time. I watched a few funerals during Covid. I didn't expect my neighbours to not make any noise during that time."

@zenobitch

My point still stands. If I knew my neighbours were inside watching a funeral, regardless of whose it was, I'd try my best not to make noise that would disturb them.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/09/2022 22:23

I think it would be better to leave it until after the funeral, as beforehand is a little early for what could be a rare day off and chance to sleep in for a lot of people. And the grass is more likely to be dry afterwards, compared to before 10am.

Carpy88999 · 19/09/2022 06:40

DuckonaBike · 18/09/2022 22:15

I can no longer tell who is serious and who is being sarcastic on threads like this.

Just on the off chance the OP is serious, yes of course you can mow your lawn.

Could we all get back to normal soon please?

I was being sarcastic for the record. But it is worrying the nation has become so weird no one could tell. 🤣

FourChimneys · 19/09/2022 06:50

Our lawns don't need cutting but I would be completely indifferent if a neighbour cut theirs at any point during the day.

In fact I wouldn't notice as we are going out to walk and paddle board for most of the day.

Can't wait for the country to get back to normal.

Muddays · 19/09/2022 06:52

Absolutely not. Forget cutting the grass and give your toenails a treat instead eh?

ChagSameachDoreen · 19/09/2022 07:37

It's what the queen would have wanted.

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 19/09/2022 07:41

user1497787065 · 18/09/2022 21:31

It would most definitely be commented on in my village.

We had a mention on the village FB page for
Cutting ours at 6pm on a Saturday whilst a neighbour was enjoying a G and T in the sunshine. We were considered to be rude and inconsiderate to others.

God really? I could never live somewhere like that.

Unglamorousgranny · 19/09/2022 12:19

If I was at home I probably wouldn't do it during the actual service, but just afterwards. As today is a Bank holiday we've extended our holiday by two days; The M5 is still pretty busy & Taunton services felt like a normal day in terms of the amount of people there, just the food outlets were closed. So there's still plenty of people out & about doing their own thing instead of watching it