I must say if any criticism is warranted it's this. Meghan is an intelligent woman, but I wouldn't say a wise one. I truly don't get how M&H do not understand the basic principle that it is not them, but what they represent and the institution they are affiliated with that imparts their mystique, their power, their fame.
When you air dirty laundry intentionally in public be justified and appear to denigrate the very think that makes you noteworthy, by extension you diminish yourself, your own power, your own mystique.
It's literally like attempting to poison someone by lacing their wine glass with poison. Then using the same glass to pour yourself a new drink.
I really really don't get why they don't understand this. I think Meghan does a lot of performance theatre with her actress background. The holding hands is an intentional thing for example. All good.
But then the constant bashing of the RF so that people lose respect for the very thing that you are trying frantically to trade on? Your children's legacy? That you are claiming is diminished because they won't receive titles.... yet you are diminishing yourself... makes absolute zero sense. It's not a clever move. Be a malevolent royal woman with power by all means - not enough of them in history. But be an intelligent one. She has echos of some of the foolish female royals in history.
I can only assume it's because they've had an American PR firm managing them. They need help.