YABU. I doubt a rapprochement is possible because I don't think Meghan will ever be accepted into that family, and that's what the problem has always been.
Bulldust. The problem was two-fold. Firstly, she thought she could swan in, become a princess, do whatever she wanted her way and if necessary get the rules bent for her as she thought she was special as she believed she was famous in her own right.
Secondly, Harry was too thick to explain to her from the beginning that about strict Royal protocols, how to behave and that, while he might think she was special, there would be no bending of the rules for her and if she didn’t accept that it wouldn’t work between them.
Then when it went pear shaped, she tantrumed, and he thought he could run to granny and have considerations made for her. Granny laughed. They got a shock, got the shits and flounced thinking everyone else would cave. No one caved and do they made up a lot of shit and went public with it to justify their flounce.
They will never leave public life as she is an attention seeker. Stay tuned for more lies every time they start to fade into the background. She will do whatever it takes to stay ‘in the limelight’. I see not one book but a new book every few years as they desperately try and stay front and centre. When they can no longer stay front and centre and command attention, she will leave him.