DP and I went away last week. Bit of a road trip with a couple of stops for a few nights in each. About 5 hours drive to first place, 2 hours to the second place then 4 hours home.
We went in his car because it's bigger than mine but shared the driving so overall about 55/45 him/me. Back in work this week and talking to two different women who have done similar holidays over the last couple of weeks and they were aghast that I'd done so much driving. Both do drive but one did about an hour total and the other not at all. When I asked why both of them separately gave the above answer: "it's the man's job."
AIBU to not understand that? Why should my poor DP have to be the one who is alert all the time while I am chauffeured? Our way we each got the chance for a little snoozle while the other one drove.
AIBU?
To wonder why "it's the man's job" to drive?
FromDespairToHere · 14/09/2022 14:52
orangeisthenewpuce · 14/09/2022 15:43
Because those women can't be arsed to drive and will eventually lose their nerve. Will start off by no longer driving on motorways. Then will only drive to places they when know the way. Then will refuse to drive saying they are too scared and expect lifts from everyone. PITAs. I love driving and we often take it in turns to do the whole of long journeys. We don't drive each other's cars.
antelopevalley · 14/09/2022 16:40
Lots of men exist on driving a woman. Something to do with their masculinity.
DP and I share driving pretty much equally. But he is very anti sexism.
MyneighbourisTotoro · 14/09/2022 16:31
My DH does the majority of driving, mainly because it’s taken me many years to even get my licence due to finances but even now I prefer it when he drives, he is more experienced and more confident, I’m quite an anxious driver.
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