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To be furious with Lloyds online banking?

261 replies

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 18:09

I logged onto my internet banking with Lloyds Bank and upon signing in was greeted with a message about The Queen passing away and giving solitude to Lloyds bank customers. Erm, does anyone else think that this is slightly WTF territory? How dare they assume their customers feelings? AIBU to think banks should not be giving out political messages like this? It's okay to say if they are sorry for someone dying, I'm not expecting them to be someone's pro-death, but AIBU to think they should stay out of giving what might be seen as provocative statements like this to people that may be against the idea of the Royal Family?

OP posts:
Culldesack · 09/09/2022 21:48

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 18:24

I'm quite frankly astonished that nobody so far has agreed with me tbh. I thought more people would agree with my stance on this. I am a fan of the Royal Family, just thought this was out-of-touch by Lloyds.

WUM

tobeornottobe1 · 09/09/2022 21:49

OP do you reckon Lloyds will close for the bank holiday for HM funeral?

User148563 · 09/09/2022 21:49

Maybe change bank...

SpinCityBlues · 09/09/2022 21:53

So you're not a Republican, OP? But you think that customers who ARE Republicans might be offended?

shakeitoffshakeacocktail · 09/09/2022 21:55

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 21:07

Nobody is getting my point, wont bother anymore.

Second time you have said this lol!

Quite happy to keep making snippy comments though! 😂

You started the tread and most of us disagree with you!

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 21:59

Not bothering to respond furthermore if people's intentions are clearly only to have a go at me.

OP posts:
Culldesack · 09/09/2022 22:02

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 21:59

Not bothering to respond furthermore if people's intentions are clearly only to have a go at me.

How old are you, seriously!

winewolfhowls · 09/09/2022 22:09

It's only because you have a nobbish tone.
You could just say oh actually I suppose I overreacted, it's no biggie.

worriedatthistime · 09/09/2022 22:11

Its not political at all

Redbone · 09/09/2022 22:11

Another who thinks that you are being a prat.

worriedatthistime · 09/09/2022 22:12

@Tania64 we aren't brainwashed because we believe different to you , thats pretty ignorant really

willithappen · 09/09/2022 22:14

More people would probably try to understand where you are coming from if you weren't being so rude and defensive in the comments
98% of replies are telling you that you are ridiculous. 98% are not wrong. You are being unreasonable and extremely rude in your replies to people
Don't ask if you are being UR if you can't handle being told you are. Seems like you just wanted to start a thread to have people only agree with you and that's it!

FlibbertyGiblets · 09/09/2022 22:18

You need to log back in and tell us the not-solitude word, ta.

SpinCityBlues · 09/09/2022 22:19

FlibbertyGiblets · 09/09/2022 22:18

You need to log back in and tell us the not-solitude word, ta.

Someone said it already upthread, ^^

Solace.

SpinCityBlues · 09/09/2022 22:20

Or maybe solicitude?

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 22:29

willithappen · 09/09/2022 22:14

More people would probably try to understand where you are coming from if you weren't being so rude and defensive in the comments
98% of replies are telling you that you are ridiculous. 98% are not wrong. You are being unreasonable and extremely rude in your replies to people
Don't ask if you are being UR if you can't handle being told you are. Seems like you just wanted to start a thread to have people only agree with you and that's it!

Ok, but people were being already decidedly combative in the comments? So how was I supposed to react to rudeness? I was not asking to confirm that I was not BU but i'd hoped for a little more reflection tbh.

OP posts:
bawsy · 09/09/2022 22:32

Close your accounts immediately. It's the only sensible option,

Keep your cash under your bed and for the love of god don't venture out in public for the next 10 days

FlibbertyGiblets · 09/09/2022 22:34

SpinCityBlues · 09/09/2022 22:19

Someone said it already upthread, ^^

Solace.

Oh soz, cheers for that.

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 22:34

bawsy · 09/09/2022 22:32

Close your accounts immediately. It's the only sensible option,

Keep your cash under your bed and for the love of god don't venture out in public for the next 10 days

And it's comments like this from wonder why did I bother leaving a comment at all... Sorry for even asking a question and merely existing in the first place.

OP posts:
bawsy · 09/09/2022 22:39

To be fair OP as someone upthread has said banks do have an interest in the monarchy as the monarch is on every single unit of currency.

Culldesack · 09/09/2022 22:42

bawsy · 09/09/2022 22:32

Close your accounts immediately. It's the only sensible option,

Keep your cash under your bed and for the love of god don't venture out in public for the next 10 days

😂

Culldesack · 09/09/2022 22:43

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 22:34

And it's comments like this from wonder why did I bother leaving a comment at all... Sorry for even asking a question and merely existing in the first place.

Oh woe is me 😅

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 22:53

Culldesack · 09/09/2022 22:43

Oh woe is me 😅

Not even remotely "woe is me", actually... I'm afraid you're very much far off that mark.

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alwaysdarkestbeforedawn · 09/09/2022 22:53

Keyansier · 09/09/2022 22:34

And it's comments like this from wonder why did I bother leaving a comment at all... Sorry for even asking a question and merely existing in the first place.

This is clearly sarcasm. Are you genuinely upset by it?

I think your title set the tone of this thread. Saying you were furious seemed like a massive overreaction and I don’t see how that invites reflection. As I said earlier, had you worded your post differently the responses would also have been different. You later said you weren’t angry but then got offended when I asked how you actually felt. I’m genuinely confused about what your objection even is, especially as you say you’re a fan of the royals.

I think many of the comments you see as rude are actually tongue in cheek. You have been combative and defensive throughout this thread and I really don’t think there was a need for it. People are allowed to disagree with you. It’s not personal.

Anyway, you’ve already made it clear you don’t want to discuss anything further with me so I probably shouldn’t have bothered with this post. I just don’t like the thought of you being upset and wanted to try and offer a little perspective.

FrankTheThunderbird · 09/09/2022 23:03

I don't have a message when I log on. Sad times Sad
Maybe it's because I'm overdrawn. I'm too poor for the message. Wink

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