My mum is a pensioner and gets Disability Benefit and Mobility Benefit and Pension Credit. She receives almost what I get in a month. She is moaning about the Government not doing enough about the cost of gas and electricity, which I agree with. The thing is they have said that people on benefits and pension credit will be given lump sums towards their bills. I am a middle earner and so is my husband. We will likely get nothing. Do you not think it will be the ordinary working families who will be squeezed the most if something is not done?
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLBabyroobs · 31/08/2022 21:53
Yes exactly. There are huge numbers of disabled pensioners on disability benefits sitting on large amounts of savings accumulated before they became disabled, so that is why it's only £150. I regularly do benefit checks for pensioners on disability benefits and they have 50 k in the bank. This is not unusual at all. Or a second home that they rent out to supplement their pension.
Morph22010 · 31/08/2022 21:51
Dla and pip isn’t means tested so I’m guessing that’s why. If a disabled person or family with disabled children are on low incomes then they will most likely also get another means tested benefit such as universal credit so will get extra from that too
caringcarer · 31/08/2022 20:18
If Truss is leader she is saying tax cuts is way to go by raising base level at which people have to pay tax. ATM it is set at £12500 free pay before tax kicks in. I don't know what level she may raise it to but £14000 would be good. This way all those working benefit. Those on benefits already had a hand out and are getting another one end of September. Disabled are getting £150, not sure why they did not get same amount as those on UC or PC. Carers nothing.
Rosscameasdoody · 31/08/2022 22:02
Reject it all you like. I’m not saying that we shouldn’t pay for our own care - it’s the system that is the problem. It should be properly funded so that everyone pays what they can afford in the form of a social care tax or similar. I’ve had this conversation on several threads. An elderly relative has recently gone into a care home and because she is a self funder, she is charged £1000 a month more than LA funded residents for exactly the same facilities. When we queried this we were told it’s standard practice and the extra charge goes towards funding those who can’t pay themselves. If our relative lives five years she will have paid £60,000 towards other people’s care. From her own funds, provided by the sale of her home which she worked hard to pay for. Yet if she runs out of funds she will have to throw herself on the mercy of the LA and will probably be moved to cheaper accommodation if the home she is in isn’t on the list of facilities funded by the LA. I agree that elderly care has to be paid for, but this isn’t a fair or sustainable way to do it.
Wouldloveanother · 31/08/2022 21:32
we’ve pretty much farmed out elderly care to private companies who gouge the elderly for care fees to the point where they have to sell everything they own before they get help
why shouldn’t they pay for their care? We have this bizarre mindset in the U.K. that the elderly shouldn’t have to pay for anything, that they’ve ‘done their bit’ (even though the proportion of SAHMs back then was much much much higher, how much tax did they pay?!) and to expect them to fund anything in unreasonable. I reject that.
ohdearnotme · 31/08/2022 20:49
People are getting handouts tho...
I know someone who works 20 hours a week minimum wage but with her UC which includes housing benefit she actually takes home nearly £35k a year.
Rent round here is ridiculously high and a large proportion does go on that, but she is not struggling by any stretch, plus she benefits from all the freebies UC people get, plus the top ups.
No judgement on my side, she worked full time her entire life before her divorce and can't make childcare work to do it again, so has little choice but to take the handout. But it most certainly is a handout.
ilovesooty · 31/08/2022 20:29
So many people looking for other people to criticise and look sideways at. Heaven forbid anyone should get something they don't - or they're perceived as getting "handouts".
busybusy10 · 31/08/2022 21:54
Hi
YANBU. I am probably classed as an average earner but have to count the pennies every month. Family members claiming seem to have more money than I do. Why are they getting payouts to help with the cost of living but I can't. Dreading the next few months coming up.
rainbowmilk · 31/08/2022 21:01
Sadly nobody cares - it’s all about hard working families. During lockdown I went months and months living alone without being able to touch anyone or have them over to see me. Same thing will happen here. Even if the middle incomes are given help, it’ll be based on dependants and those without won’t matter.
CeeJay81 · 31/08/2022 20:38
Also if you havent got children. Even if you are on a low income you can't get benefits. Rubbish for single working adults. One of my colleagues works 50 hours a week ut will struggle to get by and isn't entitled to anything cause she's not pension age and has no dependants anymore.
Appleyard8 · 31/08/2022 22:03
MIL is a classic boomer, she bought the house for peanuts and now it’s worth over £1m. Since FIL passed away she’s looking to ‘downsize’ into another 5 bed detached for £800k. She has hundreds of thousands in the bank. Yet still concerned about fuel costs allegedly. Thankfully she pays our nursery fees and some of our mortgage so I can’t be too harsh on her. But I agree middle incomes will suffer. DH and I earn 90K between us working full time and would really struggle without the additional help. MIL has never even worked full time but is cashing in on pensioner credits.
The three other houses on our estate are all owned by pensioners, all in 4 or 5 bed homes. All have new cars outside, shopping in M&S, don’t seem remotely concerned about energy prices. We will never see wealth like this in our lifetime IMO DH and I will work until we drop dead.
antelopevalley · 31/08/2022 22:06
What do you think an average earner is? I suspect you are above that.
busybusy10 · 31/08/2022 21:54
Hi
YANBU. I am probably classed as an average earner but have to count the pennies every month. Family members claiming seem to have more money than I do. Why are they getting payouts to help with the cost of living but I can't. Dreading the next few months coming up.
Appleyard8 · 31/08/2022 22:03
MIL is a classic boomer, she bought the house for peanuts and now it’s worth over £1m. Since FIL passed away she’s looking to ‘downsize’ into another 5 bed detached for £800k. She has hundreds of thousands in the bank. Yet still concerned about fuel costs allegedly. Thankfully she pays our nursery fees and some of our mortgage so I can’t be too harsh on her. But I agree middle incomes will suffer. DH and I earn 90K between us working full time and would really struggle without the additional help. MIL has never even worked full time but is cashing in on pensioner credits.
The three other houses on our estate are all owned by pensioners, all in 4 or 5 bed homes. All have new cars outside, shopping in M&S, don’t seem remotely concerned about energy prices. We will never see wealth like this in our lifetime IMO DH and I will work until we drop dead.
Babyroobs · 31/08/2022 21:35
I never fail to be amazed by how few women have never hardly worked in their lifetime. I regularly come across women who have barely worked and so barely get much of a state pension and have to rely on pension credit.
Wouldloveanother · 31/08/2022 21:32
we’ve pretty much farmed out elderly care to private companies who gouge the elderly for care fees to the point where they have to sell everything they own before they get help
why shouldn’t they pay for their care? We have this bizarre mindset in the U.K. that the elderly shouldn’t have to pay for anything, that they’ve ‘done their bit’ (even though the proportion of SAHMs back then was much much much higher, how much tax did they pay?!) and to expect them to fund anything in unreasonable. I reject that.
Babyroobs · 31/08/2022 21:53
Yes exactly. There are huge numbers of disabled pensioners on disability benefits sitting on large amounts of savings accumulated before they became disabled, so that is why it's only £150. I regularly do benefit checks for pensioners on disability benefits and they have 50 k in the bank. This is not unusual at all. Or a second home that they rent out to supplement their pension.
Morph22010 · 31/08/2022 21:51
Dla and pip isn’t means tested so I’m guessing that’s why. If a disabled person or family with disabled children are on low incomes then they will most likely also get another means tested benefit such as universal credit so will get extra from that too
caringcarer · 31/08/2022 20:18
If Truss is leader she is saying tax cuts is way to go by raising base level at which people have to pay tax. ATM it is set at £12500 free pay before tax kicks in. I don't know what level she may raise it to but £14000 would be good. This way all those working benefit. Those on benefits already had a hand out and are getting another one end of September. Disabled are getting £150, not sure why they did not get same amount as those on UC or PC. Carers nothing.
Pleasebeafleabite · 31/08/2022 22:16
Imagine having to give up work because you’d got married or become pregnant.
Imagine not being eligible to join the pension scheme because you worked part time
Nothing amazing about it
Babyroobs · 31/08/2022 21:35
I never fail to be amazed by how few women have never hardly worked in their lifetime. I regularly come across women who have barely worked and so barely get much of a state pension and have to rely on pension credit.
Wouldloveanother · 31/08/2022 21:32
we’ve pretty much farmed out elderly care to private companies who gouge the elderly for care fees to the point where they have to sell everything they own before they get help
why shouldn’t they pay for their care? We have this bizarre mindset in the U.K. that the elderly shouldn’t have to pay for anything, that they’ve ‘done their bit’ (even though the proportion of SAHMs back then was much much much higher, how much tax did they pay?!) and to expect them to fund anything in unreasonable. I reject that.
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