My mum is a pensioner and gets Disability Benefit and Mobility Benefit and Pension Credit. She receives almost what I get in a month. She is moaning about the Government not doing enough about the cost of gas and electricity, which I agree with. The thing is they have said that people on benefits and pension credit will be given lump sums towards their bills. I am a middle earner and so is my husband. We will likely get nothing. Do you not think it will be the ordinary working families who will be squeezed the most if something is not done?
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
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EveningOverRooftops · 31/08/2022 21:38
Well done everyone. You’re doing exactly as they planned. Fighting over scraps whilst those at the top rake it in and fail to address the real crushing issues.
fight to change the actual problems not the things we’re being lead to believe are the problems.
1- energy company parent companies making sky high profits whilst their subsidiaries claim they need the price rises.
2- stagnating wages.
3- rents and mortgages that were astronomical in cost compared to wages pre-2019 and have only gotten worse.
4- companies not paying adequate taxes
5- absolutely shocking treatment of workers especially those forced to take zero hours contracts or skilled work only being paid minimum wage because cheap as fuck companies know tax credits and universal credits will top up their employees wages whilst they still make substantial profits.
6- mental and physical health of a great proportion of this country is absolutely shot since March 2020.
7- the countries public services have Been systematically underfunded for over a decade under the guise of austerity but we still ‘can’t afford’ to do many of the things that would significantly improve the health, wellbeing and lives of the populace.
it’s not disabled persons, a pensioners or a benefit claimants fault this shit show is happening anymore than it’s the fault of those working for piss poor wages and/or paying sky high rents.
focus your rage at the ones throwing the fucking breadcrumbs.
Tigerstigers · 31/08/2022 20:27
Yanbu me and DH both work as many hours as possible, he earns just over 50k, I earn around 12-15k working everyday around the school runs, evenings and weekends. Because dh earns over 50k, we don't qualify for any sort of help, we don't even get full child benefit. (Although a family with both parents earning £49k do?!) It's pretty disheartening when we're struggling, but know families who aren't feeling the pinch because they're on lower incomes, and benefits, so subsequently means they get additional government help. We own our home, and have lots of repairs, maintenance etc that we're having to put on hold because we simply cannot afford to with the increase of everything else, it's going to become increasingly hard to stretch out payday. We'd be so much better off if we were alot richer or poorer, but as an "average family" we're being financially screwed.
Porcupineintherough · 31/08/2022 21:44
Well if you really believe this to be true you could always get your dh to get a lower paying job. Our family income is similar to yours and I've no desire at all to rent my home or have to top up our income with UC.
Tigerstigers · 31/08/2022 20:27
Yanbu me and DH both work as many hours as possible, he earns just over 50k, I earn around 12-15k working everyday around the school runs, evenings and weekends. Because dh earns over 50k, we don't qualify for any sort of help, we don't even get full child benefit. (Although a family with both parents earning £49k do?!) It's pretty disheartening when we're struggling, but know families who aren't feeling the pinch because they're on lower incomes, and benefits, so subsequently means they get additional government help. We own our home, and have lots of repairs, maintenance etc that we're having to put on hold because we simply cannot afford to with the increase of everything else, it's going to become increasingly hard to stretch out payday. We'd be so much better off if we were alot richer or poorer, but as an "average family" we're being financially screwed.
PrimarilyParented · 31/08/2022 21:37
The problem is that working wages for low wage jobs aren’t significantly higher than benefits. The stagnation in wages over the last decade, whilst benefits have a yearly increase in line with inflation has squeezed this gap ever more. People on benefits aren’t rolling in it, in fact most people on benefits (excepting pensioners) are in work too. The fact is that working people are paid too little and as a country we have become accustomed to low wages and don’t challenge these as much as we should.
RosetteNebula · 31/08/2022 20:34
They are miserable. They hate each other and argue all the time. They're actually shouting at each other right now. It just makes me angry when I have to get up at the crack of dawn to go to work knowing they're tucked up in bed with their taxpayer funded lifestyles. And yes you're right someone must have assessed her and declared her not well enough to work - ime and from what I've observed it's just luck or lack thereof of what person you have assessing you and how much you're willing to lie. I used to get low end DLA to help with the extra costs of a disability and it was taken away. I didn't have it in me to appeal so yes I'm a little bitter I suppose.
MissingNashville · 31/08/2022 20:29
Presumably someone medical has said she needs a carer though so she can’t bd in good health? And if it wasn’t her partner, it would be someone else. Being at home all day being your partners carer doesn’t sound like something to be envious of, although for some it’s necessary. Buying puppies. Yuk. I’d just be glad you’re not like them. But I still don’t think they can be ‘rolling in it’. Carers allowance and PIP etc aren’t that much. Sounds a miserable life to me.
RosetteNebula · 31/08/2022 20:21
I have no idea a but he pretends to be her carer and they have a fancy car, multiple designer dogs (bought their kid two puppies during lockdown), constant deliveries to the house and have just had another baby.
MissingNashville · 31/08/2022 20:17
I don’t see how anyone on benefits is ‘rolling in it’, even if they are minority that are taking the piss. How much can they realistically be claiming?
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idonotmind · 31/08/2022 21:00
Of course some boomers won't be affected even if their energy costs double. Because they are not paying for childcare costs, transportation, food, etc.
They have fewer outgoings.
I get the whole 'I've worked hard, i deserve it' argument.
But they didn't work hard enough because we're fucked now with the energy/rising costs. Only our grandparents worked hard enough to make it comfortable for the boomers.
Rosscameasdoody · 31/08/2022 21:47
This is my point. The government are spinning this to make it look like all disabled people will get up to £1200 extra help and it’s simply not true. Only those who qualify for means tested benefits will qualify. Disabled people who work and are above the thresholds for income top ups via UC won’t qualify for anything apart from the £400 universal payment and £150 council tax rebates we all get unless they qualify for PIP, DLA or AA, in which case they will get an extra £150. Any other support will only be paid if they are in receipt of means tested, income related benefits.
5zeds · 31/08/2022 21:28
I thought that the suggestion was the disabled on disability benefits would receive a single payment of £150 extra. Do you imagine that’s the increase that they will experience?
caringcarer · 31/08/2022 20:18
If Truss is leader she is saying tax cuts is way to go by raising base level at which people have to pay tax. ATM it is set at £12500 free pay before tax kicks in. I don't know what level she may raise it to but £14000 would be good. This way all those working benefit. Those on benefits already had a hand out and are getting another one end of September. Disabled are getting £150, not sure why they did not get same amount as those on UC or PC. Carers nothing.
Morph22010 · 31/08/2022 21:51
Dla and pip isn’t means tested so I’m guessing that’s why. If a disabled person or family with disabled children are on low incomes then they will most likely also get another means tested benefit such as universal credit so will get extra from that too
caringcarer · 31/08/2022 20:18
If Truss is leader she is saying tax cuts is way to go by raising base level at which people have to pay tax. ATM it is set at £12500 free pay before tax kicks in. I don't know what level she may raise it to but £14000 would be good. This way all those working benefit. Those on benefits already had a hand out and are getting another one end of September. Disabled are getting £150, not sure why they did not get same amount as those on UC or PC. Carers nothing.
Babyroobs · 31/08/2022 21:51
My 85 year old dad is not disabled in the slightest. He will be getting £300 winter fuel payment ( that he normally gets), plus an extra £300 winter fuel payment, plus £400 that every household is getting. That is £1000. He is not struggling, he is always trying to give money away to keep his saving lower than the amount where he would need to pay for care should he need to. The cost of this will be eyewatering and not always being targeted where needed most.
Rosscameasdoody · 31/08/2022 21:47
This is my point. The government are spinning this to make it look like all disabled people will get up to £1200 extra help and it’s simply not true. Only those who qualify for means tested benefits will qualify. Disabled people who work and are above the thresholds for income top ups via UC won’t qualify for anything apart from the £400 universal payment and £150 council tax rebates we all get unless they qualify for PIP, DLA or AA, in which case they will get an extra £150. Any other support will only be paid if they are in receipt of means tested, income related benefits.
5zeds · 31/08/2022 21:28
I thought that the suggestion was the disabled on disability benefits would receive a single payment of £150 extra. Do you imagine that’s the increase that they will experience?
busybusy10 · 31/08/2022 21:54
Hi
YANBU. I am probably classed as an average earner but have to count the pennies every month. Family members claiming seem to have more money than I do. Why are they getting payouts to help with the cost of living but I can't. Dreading the next few months coming up.
Wouldloveanother · 31/08/2022 21:32
we’ve pretty much farmed out elderly care to private companies who gouge the elderly for care fees to the point where they have to sell everything they own before they get help
why shouldn’t they pay for their care? We have this bizarre mindset in the U.K. that the elderly shouldn’t have to pay for anything, that they’ve ‘done their bit’ (even though the proportion of SAHMs back then was much much much higher, how much tax did they pay?!) and to expect them to fund anything in unreasonable. I reject that.
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