Would you let your mum or dad move in with you?

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Just as the title states; if your say 30ish, just getting your life on track, new job, new home, new school for the DD or DS, then one of your parents comes to stay after being absent due to living abroad for a few years, the stay turns into 2 months, then they say they want to perhaps live with you permanently...

Would you feel obliged to say yes?

No.

No

Absolutely Not!

No. Doesn't seem like it's an age/illness question, the way you put it. So I would avoid it.

I'm living with inlaws to save for a mortgage and, as amazing as they are, can't wait to move out 😖

No
And not really fair on the kids.

No, I barely cope with living my husband and son.

Definitely not!

No chance.

For our sanity .

No

No, I don't speak to either of them.

If I did, I'd still point out I am an adult with my own life, as are they, and they have to go and stand on their own two feet.

As someone who was close to murdering her own father when he came to stay for 3 months

No

No I would not

No.

Nope.

No.

Fuck no

No

Well yeah my Dad but he's dead....but no, not my Mother, never ever everrrr

Not a chance in hell

No.

Omg are you my cousin in the midlands and is your mother a narcissist 👀

NOPE!!!
I wouldnt have lasted two months!!

Your house...YOUR decision...doesnt matter what they want....

No but seriously OP, my cousin has similar with her mum. She just rocks you and stays for ages on end.

I wouldn't mind it if I didn't have a life to run, but my mum and I get along and i enjoy her company.

Nope. One of my parents I haven't seen in more than 15 years (their choice). And they would get short shrift if they came for a short visit, never mind a stay.

The other parent I see twice a week. That's quite enough.

If I had the space, 100% yes!

Absolutely not!