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Would a gay guy watch straight porn

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Theanswerisblowinginthewinds · 28/08/2022 22:01

Been seeing a guy for just under a year, sex live ok but not very often. There are quite a few things I’m unsure about with him and have niggling thoughts to him maybe being gay.
I saw his history on his phone, I admit, I looked, please don’t beat me up about it, I wanted to know.
Amongst the normal websites was some porn and it’s always basically boobs and bjs. Does this mean he’s definitely straight? I probably sound stupid but I get such a vibe from him and others have said similar, but surely if he gets off on women, he’s not gay?

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Conrad4000 · 11/06/2025 07:37

Gay guys will sometimes watch straight porn. But they aren’t getting off to the female. They are getting off to the fact that the guy is getting off to the female which is pretty much the epitome of being a gay man. Kind of a perversion type thing. I tried watching gay porn but I just couldn’t do it. I will imagine doing things with men or wanting to but then the thought just goes away. I’ve done some gay things in my life but never again. And wouldn’t want too. But i can tell you the best way to see if someone’s gay or not. Just turn on lesbian porn. 2 super hot lesbians. And if he can get off to that or to a female solo masterbatuon. Dudes isn’t gay or at the very least he is bi.

My19thNervousNameChange · 11/06/2025 07:41

What were you searching for when you dug up this two year old post about gay porn and masturbation @Conrad4000 ? Only it's a bit early for this stuff and it does make you look just a little bit pervy Hmm

SALaw · 11/06/2025 08:26

Theanswerisblowinginthewinds · 28/08/2022 23:01

@Annieisalright Yes, but would a gay guy keep watching huge boobs, tit wanks, women giving bjs etc each time 🤷🏻‍♀️

Maybe I am just trying to convince myself he’s not. I thought that would mean he wasn’t though

Maybe HE’S trying to convince himself he’s not?!

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