Look @Theanswerisblowinginthewinds I posted this on the “can a sexless relationship ever work” thread but it seems you might benefit from hearing it too.
Gay men are not all sitting in heterosexual relationships waiting to burst out and be free! If you have a problem or suspicion about how your partner is, that doesn’t automatically mean he is GAY.
You have been deliberately cagey about your “suspicions” but are now alluding to the way he stands etc.
let me tell you this. If I was to look at everything through that end of the telescope, then I would assume that the entire male cast of TOWIE is gay. Some people are much more flamboyant, expressive and different in their patterns of speech than the male grunts of years ago. It’s ok.
but the bigger question / problem for me is, you’re searching through his phone.
why?
What answers did you hope to find in there that you can’t find in searching yourself or talking to him?
Lets be real for a second. Whatever it is that isn’t working for you, it probably isn’t him being “gay”. It’s more how you two connect,, how you inspire and stimulate each other, etc.
it might be that he doesn’t fancy you the way you’d hoped. That doesn’t make him gay though. Not liking one woman, you, doesn’t mean he then automatically eschews all women, as fabulous as I’m sure you are.