To have a tummy tuck instead of clearing debt?

[Fancehnanceh]

Had my third DC in April and I can’t cope with looking at my body anymore everything I wear I can just see that horrible hanging belly I hate it!!. I’ve had 3 c-sections all together! My overhang before third dc never bothered me. I have lost a stone so I’m not sure if that’s what made it look worse.

anyhoo mum has offered to pay for it for me as it has really started to get me down. We have about 10k debt In total to clear on one credit card. We’re not late making payments and have put it all into a payment plan which we have stuck to which should be cleared in 2 years.

DH thinks I’m selfish and doesn’t agree with me doing it as we have a credit card to pay off. He thinks we should borrow the money of my mum and clear it and I should save up for a tummy. So I would have to pay mum back and save for a tummy tuck would take me years.

aibu? What is your thoughts.

Is this a joke?

Of course you shouldn't pay for a tummy tuck when you have debt to clear. Your stomach will still be reducing in. Eat carefully, healthy veg etc, drink plenty of water, and do lots of pilates. A lot of what you see can go on its own, a tummy tuck is a total waste of money even if you don't have debt.

She's not paying for it. Her mom is offering to pay for a TT for her.

ZOMBIE

Think I agree with this ... maybe he should borrow the money instead (assuming it's a joint debt, apologies if I missed that)

Doh! Yup just noticed

When I was pregnant I used to tell my DH that I was having a tummy tuck if I had loose skin after the birth, thankfully I didn't need it but he never once argued with me.