I'm probably going to sound like an absolute Cruella Deville here but...
I was returning from abroad at the weekend. The flight was delayed and we ended up sat at the gate for a while.
There was a little girl of about 5 with her parents sat two rows in front facing me.
She came up to me and asked about a bracelet I had on - fine. Very sweet.
But then she was talking to me for agessssss. Question after question, telling me about her holiday, her birthday, her new toy and on and on. Her parents knew as well as they kept looking over to make sure she'd not disappeared.
I was very obviously reading a book. It ended up being a good half an hour, probably longer, before we were finally called to board and she went off to her parents.
AIBU to think you call your child back over to you once they've made a small amount of conversation with someone or is this totally acceptable to just leave your child going on and on at a stranger trying to read?!
I do have kids, I know they are chatterboxes sometimes and my own DC have asked people questions in the park or something before. But I'd always call them back over after a minute or two or say 'come on let the lady ready her book/walk her dog / get on with her day' or whatever.
I'd never just sit there whilst my child pestered someone for half an hour or AIBU?
AIBU?
To think parents should stop their children talking on and on to people?
CanIReadPls · 08/08/2022 10:30
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girlfriend44 · 08/08/2022 12:44
why didnt you put your book down and chat to her and the family. It never ceases to amaze me how people can chat on forums but dont want to make conversation with ppl in real life.
You can read your book in bed or another time.
girlfriend44 · 08/08/2022 12:44
why didnt you put your book down and chat to her and the family. It never ceases to amaze me how people can chat on forums but dont want to make conversation with ppl in real life.
You can read your book in bed or another time.
aurynne · 08/08/2022 12:07
I had an experience like this once when my now Ex-DH and I were getting ready to order in a restaurant. this 5 or 6 y.o. girl started talking to me. She was very cute, so I had a short talk with her and then our food arrived. She kept talking. I asked her to go back to their parents as we were eating and we'd like to talk to each other, but she just kept talking non stop. I had enough when she actually started picking stuff from my plate with her fingers and eating it. I grabbed her by the arm, carted her back to her family's table (no one had even bothered to check where she was all this time) and told them to keep their child with them and explain to her why it is extremely rude to steal food from strangers.
The parents glared at me as if it had all been my fault and I was a horrible person!
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ShirleyPhallus · 08/08/2022 13:16
She sounds extremely irritating but I’d have been so pissed off if someone grabbed my child by the arm to escort them back. Go and get the parents, no need to put your hands on the children.
As for telling a child to fuck off 😮
aurynne · 08/08/2022 12:07
I had an experience like this once when my now Ex-DH and I were getting ready to order in a restaurant. this 5 or 6 y.o. girl started talking to me. She was very cute, so I had a short talk with her and then our food arrived. She kept talking. I asked her to go back to their parents as we were eating and we'd like to talk to each other, but she just kept talking non stop. I had enough when she actually started picking stuff from my plate with her fingers and eating it. I grabbed her by the arm, carted her back to her family's table (no one had even bothered to check where she was all this time) and told them to keep their child with them and explain to her why it is extremely rude to steal food from strangers.
The parents glared at me as if it had all been my fault and I was a horrible person!
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