Just lost my sh#t at my husband and kids because I'm sick of doing everything around the house. My husband told me not to talk to him for the rest of the day because of my silly little attitude. AIBU to ask where I can dispose of a rolled up rug I no longer need?
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLTessabelle74 · 07/08/2022 16:05
@pointythings I'm sorry your relationship went so bad. I'm seriously worried that I'll end up hating him and if we split I'd rather it was amicable because the kids are still so young! When it's good, it's so good but I'm not sure if its worth these deep fucking sulks I have to put up with in between! He's still not talking to me, I've done nothing for him today. His Dad is bringing our boys home after a day out shortly and I'd normally act like everything is fine but I can't be arsed to any more
WinnysPinny · 06/08/2022 19:24
It’s just a row why he can’t say ok let’s talk and do something about the situation beggars belief
LilyMarshall · 07/08/2022 17:53
Im so confused by how old your are? I think that is a major list of daily chores for children young enough to call you mummy and daddy. Two every day, one of which might be to clean a bathroom! Can a child still calling you mummy really clean a bathroom properly?
your husband is a sexist lazy arsehole.
Suetodo88 · 07/08/2022 09:51
@danny735
But see I’m not talking about you as you made your expectations clear that you wanted someone who did equal in the first place.So in spite of what you say about not choosing your husband based on what he does around the house, you actually have factored that in as you wouldn’t be with him if he didn’t do an equal amount.
Couples don’t need to do an equal amount of housework. I am a SAHM and do the vast majority of housework and that works for us which is what matters. Finding a situation that works for both of you. All I’m saying is it is wise to establish that early so no one is confused or feels either taken advantage of or that they’re being asked to do things they didn’t agree to.
If my sons end up doing all the housework and becoming SAHD that is fine with me if they want it - and if they do none and their wives are fine with that that’s fine too. I don’t tell my sons or daughter that their is one way they must live out their lives
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