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To walk out of a pub and leave my boyfriend sat alone

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 17:49

because he is acting like a huge cock.We're on holiday, he just called my a stupid fat b@tch. I need comments like that like i need a second anus.

I have enough on my plate. Thing about men is you trust them as a best mate but they can come out with the nastiest shit when a woman would just keep it in.

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 19:42

any many? any manner....

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 19:44

He is defo not making it up in any many i chose, no no. He is not going to turn gay on me.
chuffed you acknowledged me, you nice girl you are

How you doing vvv,

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Sobernow · 19/01/2008 19:57

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 20:01

Not bad. I'm all married up now. Getting on with things, life, etc. Recovering from a kidney infection. Again.

Life is not too bad for me at the moment.

How is your DS now?

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 20:11

Married! My god am i the only one destined to grow a moustache and collect cats!!

My ds needs open heart surgery next year apparently. He is getting a little blue and out of breath. My other son is crap at writing dyslexia apparently he is definetly the arty type and shall be a designer i imagine

I am very proud of them both, they are sensitive and loving and kind and adore me. I cannot believe they are mine when they kiss me on the cheek, it's crazy.

Boyf now back in hotel room. Knocked on the door with a bottle of bloody perrier champs in his hand (where the f has he got that from???). Staggered in, said " dead sorry, been nervous about coming back love you" then fell on the bed. As we speak he is full clothed over the covers snoring. I shall take my Diaphram out.

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FluffyMummy123 · 19/01/2008 20:12

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 20:24

Oh blimey FF. Open heart surgery isnt something you have in mind for your kids is it?

Dyslexia - if your other ds has it and its diagnosed it wont cause him a problem.

I already pictured you with a moustache...dont you have one?

mistressmiggins · 19/01/2008 20:28

I would draw a moustache on him while he sleeps

think you were totally right to walk out when he spoke to you like that

think also that its just one of those things & your reaction showed him you wont tolerate such behaviour - NOT ditching action in my book

I was once told to "F off you C" by my then boyfriend. I walked out the pub & his friend told him he was an idiot. He came back & apologised....unfortunately this was NOT a one off & he was emotionally abusive to me so I ditched him.....

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 20:28

No moustache but i keep getting spots and i don't know why. Driving me bloody mad.

No surgery on the heart aint great but if ever a boy had to have it, i have that boy. What i mean is he is an absolute witty ignorant lunatic who will probably think it is his birthday party once he sees balloons on his bed.

The poet is hilarious and i thnk god every day for his source of amusement.

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 20:32

Ugh, I get spots. It's disgraceful to have to put up with pubescent problems in your thirties.

Have you got a date yet for his op, or is it something that's a wait and see kind of thing?

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 20:38

No date, he has a scan every six months and his last scan they basically said........ ooohhhh it's buggered, we will leave it for six months as the longer we leave it the better the op will be but, yeh.....i think it will be next winter. October. It cant keep the way it is as the right side of his heart is getting huge.(his valve is broken and the blood is flowing backwards into the right)

I actualy well up when i think about it, so i tend not to, this is one of the reasons boyf is calling me selfish as i tell him i am capable of handling it alone and don't need him. I have also been stressing about prison bloke.

I would also like it if he really really did stop snoring.

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 20:42

Must be tough going for all of you FF.

Prison bloke?

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 20:48

Yeh a couple of years ago someone broke in a played with my fanny.

I told the police.

He is getting released in two weeks.

I want to move to oz.

Boyf tells me i have to stop running away.

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 20:50

Ah, that prison bloke.....Fuckery buggers. I can see why that would be stressing you out.

HAve you had any reassurances from the police? Injuctions in place? Conditions of his parole?

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 20:57

I am allowed to say what streets i dont want him on, village life doesn't work like that does it.

Any hoo, i feel like he has been punished enough and he should be free, i just dont want to be scared and imagine the worse. So i have handed in my notice at the house i rent.

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WendyWeber · 19/01/2008 21:00

Blimey, ff - just picked up on this from the link on the other thread - what a lot going on in your life all at once.

Sorry about DS1 needing open-heart surgery but once it's done, he will be OK? Both your boys are adorable (as you know) and it's all down to you (as you also know), they will have fab lives whatever they end up doing

Prison bloke won't come near you now, surely - DP is right although I would want to run awaaaaay too in the circs.

Glad you are with DP again though - god I am out of touch.

XXX

VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2008 21:01

Cant you just name all the streets???

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 21:04

WW, i am tired of inviting you to come for dinner one day, ok???? Do it!

DS1 worries me because of the op, not now, he is fine, i will absolutely shit it when he is in theatre. But, it happens doesn't it. so you have to be normal about it.

DP moving in soon and i really love him, i never have had that kind of love, i respect him, i get tears in my eyes when i see him hold my boys and they giggle.

Tell me you news and life.......... if you cant do it here, please email me x

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WendyWeber · 19/01/2008 21:13

Are you still on old email address? (msn one?)

I've been working every Sunday for the last 2 years but have just switched to Saturdays now so my Sundays are freeeeeeee, I would love to come for dinner (and so would DD2), I will email, I promise

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 21:15

Same email, nicer house, better cook, really what do you have to lose

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Ubergeekian · 19/01/2008 21:21

fairyfly: "We're on holiday, he just called my a stupid fat b@tch. I need comments like that like i need a second anus."

Sounds as if you have one already.

(Couldn't resist it)

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 21:25

Haha, true.

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anorak · 19/01/2008 21:30

Glad it all worked out in the end ff. Give him a good spanking later

Now we are off out as it is dh's birthday today.

LolaTheShowgirl · 19/01/2008 21:31

Well it sounds like you have an awful lot on your plate at the mo. Hope everything works out for you ff.

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fairyfly · 19/01/2008 21:39

Happy birthday to Blossom flower xxxx Have a fab night. I realy really wish i could have jumped on a train to see you lately.

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