Just that really. Being a guest can be expensive. All the travel too. Finding babysitters. IMO she needs to stop getting married. It’s not working for her. I want to politely decline but I know she’s going to take it badly.
AIBU?
To not want to go to a person’s 4th wedding
Whingebagg · 19/07/2022 15:32
Am I being unreasonable?
918 votes. Final results.
POLLBlueKaftan · 19/07/2022 15:34
She’s kind of a dick to expect anyone to attend her 4th wedding. And to add emotional blackmail makes it even worse.
Whingebagg · 19/07/2022 15:44
She’s my old primary friend. It’s like not going to a relatives wedding but I can’t be bothered with it.
MrsTerryPratchett · 19/07/2022 15:37
It's a party. If you don't want to go, don't.
I think the mean judgement is a bit much. Someone I love is getting married again. I'm happy for them.
Homewardbound2022 · 19/07/2022 15:42
Tell her you'll go to the next one.
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Whingebagg · 19/07/2022 15:46
Her uncle said “see you at the next one” to her at her third wedding. I can’t steal his lines.
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