There's plenty wrong with the way boys have traditionally been raised too. Primarily the idea that they have some inherent primacy in the world which gives them the right to dominion over women.
You see this in most men, even the most "progressive" ones, to some degree. They may pay lip service to feminism but deep down most of them instinctively believe they should call the shots in most areas of life including in the workplace and the family.
I don't think this is good for society btw, but the critical difference is that these behaviours are not typically self-destructive.
Boys aren't generally brought up to constantly second guess themselves, to constantly check their behaviour, their appearance, to bring their views into line with the consensus, to tamp everything down and hold back and play nice and not rock the boat at almost all cost.
Obviously there are some men who don't fit the "masculine" mould (gay men being the most obvious example) whose role here is problematic.
But the societal expectation is that men should be able to develop themselves as they see fit and be who they are without constantly kowtowing to what women expect and need from them. This is not true of women.
Many women's entire lives are designed more or less exclusively to fit around men and any behaviour which doesn't please or support men is discouraged or shamed.