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Cliche sayings that grind your gears!

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Mummommy · 11/07/2022 01:43

Am I the only one who finds cliche sayings e.g. Facebook quotes Instagram quotes highly annoying. I feel like a lot of people used them to self soothe but I can’t help but find them extremely annoying especially the super obvious ones.

Some of the many that annoy me are:
I am working on me.
If they don’t accept you at your worst, they don’t deserve you at your best.

What cliche quotes or sayings grind your gears?

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DecimatedDreams · 11/07/2022 01:45

"Grinds your gears".

Mummommy · 11/07/2022 01:59

@DecimatedDreams I knew that was coming!

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blackcatnight · 11/07/2022 02:01

‘IYSWIM’

I seethe when people add this to their posts. It is never necessary and contributes nothing meaningful to whatever is being said. It looks gimmicky and dated, like a granny typing LOL or using obsolete slang.

steviewiththecankles · 11/07/2022 03:05

For me it’s my truth, his truth etc. It always sounds so false, like it’s not going to be the full truth.

jewishmum · 11/07/2022 03:13

Dance like nobody's watching

ChampagneLassie · 11/07/2022 03:20

God I hate these, things. Particularly when written in a jazzy script on a canvus wall art. My DP and I used to have a game to send each other screenshots of the worst ones. A beauty salon I used to frequent posted this on their SM. 🤣

Cliche sayings that grind your gears!
Mummommy · 11/07/2022 03:23

@steviewiththecankles How could I forget this, “Speaking my truth” “Living in my truth” is probably top of my list!

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Mummommy · 11/07/2022 03:30

@ChampagneLassie yes don’t get me started on the annoying quotes in farmhouse cursive phase!

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Lovewineandchocolate · 11/07/2022 03:32

Making memories 😬

RockAndRollerskate · 11/07/2022 03:38

You are enough

SNWannabe · 11/07/2022 04:25

Happy Mummy Happy Baby

It is what it is (especially on love island this year!)

Cheer up! (From anyone but particularly from strangers!)

DeeCeeCherry · 11/07/2022 05:28

No weapon formed against me shall prosper
🙄

doingitforyorkshire · 11/07/2022 05:42

jewishmum · 11/07/2022 03:13

Dance like nobody's watching

Now I have to defend this one. Late one night at a wedding do, most were drunk, I was sober, and one chap owned the dance floor. All by himself he danced very badly but was enjoying himself so much in a world of his own. I was bad laughing just watching him, he was really giving it wellie! When I hear this saying I think of him and it still makes me chuckle now, many years later.

MummaTrinee · 11/07/2022 05:46

Living your best life

Frangipanipie · 11/07/2022 05:47

‘It’s one of those isn’t it’..not sure if that’s a well know one but my colleague must say it at least 20 times each day. Doesn’t matter what it’s in connection with, I think he just says it to fill silences!

EntertainingandFactual · 11/07/2022 05:58

@DecimatedDreams

Just about to quote the same!
‘Grind your gears’ is a very annoying phrase!

Onlyhuman123 · 11/07/2022 06:03

Live, laugh, love. Gaaaahhhh makes me want to be sick.

It is what it is.

Rant over - this one really bugs me, especially when it ends a paragraph when someone is just having a minor whinge. Love, if you're going to 'rant' to it bloody properly!!!

Chikapu · 11/07/2022 06:24

Every time I see this I die a little bit inside, how the actual fuck do you believe in pink?

Cliche sayings that grind your gears!
Carpy88999 · 11/07/2022 06:29

Anything stencilled onto a kitchen wall.

"This house is seasoned with love"

Makes me want to vomit, my Mum has loads of them!

pumpkinpie01 · 11/07/2022 06:29

@Chikapu never seen that before but that is truly awful !

NorthernLights5 · 11/07/2022 06:36

Self soothe!

Siameasy · 11/07/2022 06:38

“We’re all a little bit on the spectrum” said by the least likely candidate for it.

YnysMonCrone · 11/07/2022 06:38

"And just like that, he's a graduate/ last day if primary/ finished sixth form".
There's a lot of it about at the moment

Mercurial123 · 11/07/2022 06:42

"You go girl" used on MN but haven't heard anyone say it in years. It sounds rubbish and is patronising.

SpartacusNotEsther · 11/07/2022 06:53

'makes my teeth itch'

I've only ever been aware of it on mumsnet.