Flat-chested mean comment from supposed friend

[Stardust35]

Before going on a work night out I was already feeling anxious/panicky (social anxiety). Despite telling my husband that I really didnt want to go, I pushed through to join, thinking it would be okay when I got there. Before leaving I put on a new dress that I felt confident in, did make-up nicely etc. Then whilst out, I complimented a supposed friend on her dress. Another colleague said she was jealous about her boobs filling the dress, and wished she could. Then supposed friend said, "you do have boobs unlike [me] who really does have a flat chest."
I'm a b cup. I'm already inwardly self-conscious and felt totally shit about myself from that comment. Every one else sitting nearby looked taken-aback that she said it. Am I wrong to still feel upset now?

The only way to look attractive is to have big boobs and show cleavage. Then you can be the queen bee and look down upon women who “have less than you”.

what? Who thinks like that? What utter nonsense.

A certain demographic of men "read" The Sun.

The rest do not.

Get it.

They never put flat chested women on page 3 etc.

Why are some of the comments about what men might like? It's about the OP feeling upset that someone made a very uncalled for personal comment about her body that dented her self confidence. Who gives a fuck about what any man thinks?

I didn't realise being flat chested was an insult. Women with small boobs look really good! Clothes sit much better and you don't look matronly.

I am a B cup and I wouldn't have described myself as flat chested. I wish mine were smaller - the flatter the better as far as I am concerned.

I really am flat chested OP but I love not having to wear a bra and not having to ever worry about sagging! A good friend of mine has large boobs as does her mum (age late 40's at the time) who I once saw getting changed and they were literally down to her belly button. I was always a bit envious of friend's boobs till I saw the effects of time and gravity. She was well off as well so I definitely don't think it could be put down to cheap bras. Pros and cons to everything I think.

Oh and should have said 'friend' is just plain rude and mean.

Mean

I had a friend say this to me once, in front of everyone. She then kept making little dogs about my B cups

Turned out, her husband had said something to her about how nice I looked in a certain dress. It made her feel insecure.

She told me this years later when drunk

But yeah, it's mean but says more about her than you

Larger boobs sag. Mine are D/DD and they droop, are veiny etc. If I coukd have stayed a B-cup forever (I was this size when young), I would have chosen this size. As others have said, clothes look better over small breasts too.

She is a really nasty piece of work. She showed her true side and is no friend of yours.

She is obviously one of those when who feel the need to put other women down

I have small boobs. It did bother me when I was younger but OH finds me attractive and as far as I'm concerned he's the only one I dress to impress (other than myself).

@Stardust35 I had a 38GG chest. I ended up having a breast reduction and am now a 36D. They're still huge and look at women with B cups longingly. Clothes look SO much better, you look slimmer overall (I think), they stay perky, you look less frumpy as you age, and you can buy bras and bikinis anywhere. She's a cow. And, likely, a bit jealous!!!

36f here, I long for 34b, so much more attractive, in my eyes. I bet you looked amazing and her comment was born of insecurity.

She’s not your friend, she’s most likely jealous of you and is secretly in competition with you. Major frenemy vibes. Can’t be trusted and is actually an enemy hiding in plain sight.