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To be annoyed that husband pulled me up

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Lemoncurd2 · 01/07/2022 10:31

So, my husband pulled me up last night as apparently we are not having enough sex. I had a coil fitted a while back and had really bad periods since. It has been about 2 weeks since the last time but I am so bloody tired by the evening and he goes out to do his hobbies so I am guessing he expects me to wait up. He is also very lazy around the house which I just don’t find attractive.

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ComfyChairPose · 01/07/2022 17:03

True for me. If there are no quotable stats and links i think it's because men dont care what turns women off. They only notice what turns them on.

arethereanyleftatall · 01/07/2022 20:46

ShandaLear · 01/07/2022 12:44

I’d rather fix my own drawer than shag OP’s husband. It’s not fucking rocket science, is it?

Absolutely and utterly this.
Ladies, the shit men contribute really isn't very hard. You could do it with one hand tied behind your back. And, then be in utter peace for the remaining 99.9% of time.

Eeksteek · 01/07/2022 21:11

arethereanyleftatall · 01/07/2022 20:46

Absolutely and utterly this.
Ladies, the shit men contribute really isn't very hard. You could do it with one hand tied behind your back. And, then be in utter peace for the remaining 99.9% of time.

Around here, if I don’t do it, it doesn’t get done. End of. I either learn how to fix it, live with it broken or hope to buy a new one one day. I’m still alive.

scarletisjustred · 01/07/2022 22:34

I wonder if you might be tired because you're anaemic. Might be worth a blood test. Some iron tablets might give you enough energy to get rid of your husband because, unless he has redeeming qualities you haven't mentioned, he doesnt sound very nice.

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