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Story of girl allegedly raped by father in Greece

138 replies

letitgo · 01/07/2022 07:51

Has anyone seen this?

It's a strange story and the daughter has waived her anonymity to sell her story on the paper but in the effort of helping her dad who is in Greek jail who she says didn't rape her.

She is unemployed but was on holiday in greece with just her father.

She has children but remains in greece refusing to go home and leave her dad until he is released.

It's absolutely baffling. If her father is innocent then this is truly horrific for them to go through. But I'm not sure I'd want to be in greece along than back home with my children after such an ordeal. Not sure who is looking after her children.

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Gwenhwyfar · 01/07/2022 21:41

"If between close relatives, then child sexual abuse IS incest."

I know it's incest FFS. That was my entire point!

Luidaeg · 01/07/2022 21:51

Justcallmebebes · 01/07/2022 13:53

I wonder if they’re in a ‘relationship’ which is more common than people think especially if he was absent when she was younger and someone else reported him.

What??? I've never heard of a father/daughter relationship before. Siblings, yes but not parents. Please tell me I'm not alone in this

Is this a serious comment?

Jalisco · 01/07/2022 21:54

Gwenhwyfar · 01/07/2022 21:41

"If between close relatives, then child sexual abuse IS incest."

I know it's incest FFS. That was my entire point!

No it wasn't. And there is no need to swear.

RichardOsmansXraySpecs · 01/07/2022 22:07

catfunk · 01/07/2022 21:41

What a messed up situation. Where is the cctv ? I can only see stills in the newspaper which doesn't show anything.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10969165/Brit-mum-four-33-raped-father-holiday-Crete-waives-anonymity.html

A little way down the page.

Gwenhwyfar · 01/07/2022 22:12

"No it wasn't. And there is no need to swear."

What? You patronised me so yes there was a need to swear.
And how dare you tell me what my point was. I think I know what my point was better than you do.

Emmelina · 01/07/2022 22:17

The CCTV makes for very uncomfortable viewing. She’s clearly VERY drunk, and he’s all over her. She managed to get away and stumble to sit at the bar instead, and he followed, downed another drink and then went to touch her again.
I can see why the authorities arrested him, to be honest. She may be correct in that it wasn’t him, or maybe she doesn’t want to believe he could do such a thing. Either way, that footage paints a very inappropriate picture of his respect for boundaries.

icelolly12 · 01/07/2022 22:30

Considering the cctv shows him sexually assaulting her it wouldn't be a jump to assume he's also the rapist.

icelolly12 · 01/07/2022 22:34

Swimmingpoolsally · 01/07/2022 16:07

I didn't see anything sexual in the cctv, it looked like he was very drunk and trying to get her into a fireman's lift

that’s a very unique take. Everyone else saw inappropriate behaviour. I’m stunned you watched it and thought oh he’s trying to get her in a fire man’s lift. How very odd.

Sorry but 😂

Maytodecember · 01/07/2022 22:50

“I can't work out why the dna tests are taking so long.”

Depends on facilities available on the island. Might have to be sent to Greek mainland.
She must have been medically examined, I’m surprised she wasn’t given morning after pill if she’s not using contraception. If she can only speak to her father by phone she may as well have returned home and medical attention might be more thorough, or at least quicker.

tiktokontheclock · 01/07/2022 22:52

LidlMiddleLover · 01/07/2022 20:24

He was totally inappropriate on cctv so i am betting dna will be his

Just watched it and I was shocked - at one point it looks like he is kissing her chest or neck. Just not normal at all for a father and daughter, even if they were completely s-t faced drunk like they were.

Runningnewbie · 02/07/2022 13:03

I wonder if she’s being supported by anyone over there? Such an awful situation

iklboo · 02/07/2022 13:26

Just watched it and I was shocked - at one point it looks like he is kissing her chest or neck.

Looks like he's got his hand between her legs as well.

AtwilightRebellion · 02/07/2022 20:52

@nixnjj

Just how familiar are you with the Greek judicial system?

You seem to want to cast your opinion on this case based on living there.

How long did you live there for?

It is really a fact that Greece is fed up with English savages.

It is really unfortunate that a great many Brits have to bear the brunt of a reputation where - for example - a newly wed couple perform a sex act outside an Orthodox church. It is one of many obscenities Greece has had to suffer because of low level folk who have no respect for anyone.

If you really knew Greek society and law you would know that a lot has been tolerated.

This case in question has baffled all of Greece and has everyone feeling sorry for the woman in question.

But as it stands, the father remains main suspect.

Please again blame Greek police for this.

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He is grinding his groin against her, has his hand up her skirt and his face in her chest, that’s not normal fatherly behaviour no matter how drunk he is. I’m assuming you didn’t snog your brother full on the lips?

Itsnot · 02/07/2022 23:28

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PaddleBoardingMomma · 02/07/2022 23:33

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Utterly bizarre

ofwarren · 02/07/2022 23:36

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You snogged your Brother? Jfc 🤮

icelolly12 · 02/07/2022 23:36

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Well if you think snogging your brother is normal, you're obviously not aware of normal family boundaries. This behaviour shown on cctv is incredibly creepy and unsettling.

shoebag · 02/07/2022 23:38

What the hell has happened to the world where some people think a song with your brother is ok????

icelolly12 · 02/07/2022 23:41

I'm hoping that brother snogging poster is a troll, if not then clearly there are more weirdos out there than I realised.

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OppsUpsSide · 02/07/2022 23:42

It doesn’t look like a healthy father/daughter relationship (who goes on holiday and gets wasted with their dad?!) but it did also look to me like a very drunk person trying to help an even drunker person. Mind you, I usually read things wrong!

OppsUpsSide · 02/07/2022 23:43

Snogging your brother, in the usual course of things, is really quite unusual

icelolly12 · 02/07/2022 23:43

Snogging your brother is VERY weird and disgusting, it's incest which is illegal. Eww.