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To draw your attention to this U.K. abortion law court case?

274 replies

Wouldloveanother · 29/06/2022 20:29

Evening ladies
in light of Roe v Wade, it seems more important than ever that we are vigilant about abortion rights here in Britain.
there is an upcoming case at the Court of Appeal which seeks to repeal section 1(1)(d) of the Abortion Act 1967. Which permits later terminations for fetal abnormalities.
the hearing is on 13th July (next month).
very few posters seemed to be aware of it, so thought I would open it here for anyone who wishes to discuss.
thanks

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LoveIsAFairyTale · 30/06/2022 09:32

Darbs76 · 29/06/2022 21:50

I know of someone who had a termination at 36wks due to an abnormally found during a late scan to check the placenta. They all agreed the condition was incompatible with life. I guess it’s a huge decision, terminate when in the womb and no pain and suffering for the child, or give birth and watch the child die. Neither is a good option, and I guess that the parents made the choice they did with the absolutely believe of believing they were saving their child from any pain and suffering. I could never begin to judge that, what’s right or wrong as I can’t imagine being in that situation. It absolutely broke them. Heartbreaking

It's a tragic situation to be in. At 36 weeks whether Inside the womb or dying in their mothers arms. That baby will feel pain. If born, pain relief can be given & baby can be comforted in its short lived life.

Livpool · 30/06/2022 09:33

RudsyFarmer · 29/06/2022 21:08

I think a termination for medical reasons shouldn’t have as time limit.

Agree with this

PetraBP · 30/06/2022 09:36

restedbutexhausted · 30/06/2022 09:16

As discussed above, that's not what is happening. In the UK you can only have a late term abortion if the foetus has severe abnormalities incompatible with life. Stop the whataboutery.

If you don't like abortion, why don't you donate your time and money to things that will actually reduce the abortion rate.

I agree that’s not happening in the UK.

It’s what many here advocate though.

I’m not against abortion in all circumstances.

What I’m dead set against is the proposition that abortion beyond the point of viability where the foetus is healthy should be allowed.

Even if we go with the idea that a person shouldn’t have to remain pregnant a minute longer than they want to be, I don’t understand why the baby would have to die in these circumstances.

LoveIsAFairyTale · 30/06/2022 09:37

I believe it should be down to the woman to choose. I hope to never find myself in these shoes. But I would want to make my own choice.

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 30/06/2022 09:38

@LoveIsAFairyTale exceot in your preferred scenario the baby has to go through up to another 5 weeks of pregnancy plus birth just to get to the place where pain relief can be administered to die anyway.

Isnt it kinder to end any possible suffering as soon as you become aware of the issue?

I don’t know much about fetus pain levels. I suspect the wild claims on this thread about the amount of pain a fetus feels and when are wildly exaggerated and used in a bid to control women and their feelings.

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 30/06/2022 09:39

@PetraBP who is going to look after it?

Olivestone · 30/06/2022 09:42

Slothtoes · 30/06/2022 09:14

Olivestone I posted only about an hour ago about the anaesthetic used in feticide, please do the women affected by this the respect of reading the thread before judging what you clearly have zero experience of and spreading upsetting misinformation.

www.rcog.org.uk/guidance/browse-all-guidance/other-guidelines-and-reports/fetal-awareness-review-of-research-and-recommendations-for-practice/

I stand corrected if this is out of date! But to me this reads that it is not necessary used 100% of the time.

Somuchgoo · 30/06/2022 09:43

woody87 · 29/06/2022 21:44

An execution

More like euthanasia (depending on the severity of the disability).

JustFrustrated · 30/06/2022 09:47

PetraBP · 30/06/2022 09:36

I agree that’s not happening in the UK.

It’s what many here advocate though.

I’m not against abortion in all circumstances.

What I’m dead set against is the proposition that abortion beyond the point of viability where the foetus is healthy should be allowed.

Even if we go with the idea that a person shouldn’t have to remain pregnant a minute longer than they want to be, I don’t understand why the baby would have to die in these circumstances.

Literally no one, any where, is advocating for late term abortion of a healthy feotus.

You're making that up. 100% that's fiction in your head.

cushioncovers · 30/06/2022 09:53

Petra "What I’m dead set against is the proposition that abortion beyond the point of viability where the foetus is healthy should be allowed."

This happens extremely rarely if at all.

Somuchgoo · 30/06/2022 09:53

Reallyreallyborednow · 30/06/2022 08:51

I would imagine it would be extremely painful to be essentially dismembered at 25 weeks...

i’ve seen this so many times in the Roes vs wade argument, that TOP, even early, is somehow done by dismembering the baby.

that is not what is done.

Past a certain point the foetus is given an injection to stop it’s heart before the procedure. It feels nothing. The woman will then be induced.

at no point is anyone dismembering anything.

Isn't a D&C dismemberment though?

Obviously it's not used past a certain stage -about 20w if I recall, but we can't say that fetuses are not dismembered at any stage, when it's one of the procedures that is used.

Clymene · 30/06/2022 09:54

Roe vs Wade really has brought all the fantasists to the yard.

Queenoftheashes · 30/06/2022 10:11

Demigo · 30/06/2022 06:49

@IfIhearmumagaintoday there was a big study in the US a few years ago that found 99% of people with DS felt happy with their lives.

It’s not a condition that tends to lead to a poor quality of life.

Really? My cousin had DS and died at a few months old from related complications. I’m sure some people are fine but you’re making out it’s a trivial condition.

JLwac · 30/06/2022 10:13

@aldilemonade thank you.
I am sorry for everyone on this thread who has experienced a tfmr. It's a heartbreaking thing to go through Flowers

TheRealShedSadie · 30/06/2022 10:16

The problem with writing into law a strict time limit on termination, or (god forbid) a list of permitted reasons, you’re into very dangerous territory.
Youre only one step away from a list of state permitted disabilities and a scale of ‘how disabled’ before permission is given. Horrific.

The woman’s right to choose for whatever reason (and there are always multiple social, financial etc) MUST take precedence over all else. That principle alone is the one I stand by. Her body her choice every single time.

LeavesOnTrees · 30/06/2022 10:20

I know someone who kept their DS baby. He was born with severe complications, and had to have three operations in his short life before eventually dying a year later.
He suffered, the mother suffered, the whole family suffered. I don't think anyone has the right to force a family to go through that. The mother was religious and considers that it was god who took her baby and his decision. That was her right to choose that course of action.

I have a friend who had a TFMR, she speaks of it as losing a baby. The baby was very much wanted.
These are difficult decisions women have to make and they should be supported as much as possible.

No one is advocating that women should be able to go up to 40 weeks and then abort on a whim. It quite simply does not happen.

Livpool · 30/06/2022 10:21

Dobbysgotthesocks · 30/06/2022 00:13

Personally I don't think abortion for non fatal conditions such as Down syndrome should be allowed beyond 24 weeks. If they have further complications beyond the DS that make it a fatal condition or if it puts the mothers life at risk then that's different. I do think abortion for severe / fatal conditions should be allowed to term. But Down syndrome doesn't fall into that category.
As for woman's rights and womens right to choose I'm sorry but she has had time to make decisions about the pregnancy. If she didn't want to be pregnant then she could have aborted sooner. She doesn't have the right to abort a healthy baby post 24 weeks so would have to continue the pregnancy regardless the same should apply to non fatal conditions.

And if the mother really feels she cannot cope with a child with DS then there is always the option to surrender the child to foster care and adoption.

Then don't YOU have one after this date

rhowton · 30/06/2022 10:22

LittleBoPeep345 · 29/06/2022 21:55

Sometimes a lethal fetal abnormality is diagnosed in late pregnancy by chance

What if it is a non lethal abnormality diagnosed in late pregnancy? What is the difference between terminating a pregnancy at 39 weeks and killing a baby that has been born with a disability at one week old?

Well, ones a foetus, and ones a baby. What don't you understand?

Nothappyatwork · 30/06/2022 10:24

The medical professions also get it wrong from time to time, just as when they try and tell you that your baby needs to be induced because it’s an absolute whopper and then time after time these babies are born at 6/7 pounds entirely normal weight range. It’s extremely difficult to diagnose in utro.

my cousin terminated at 25 weeks because she was told Edwards syndrome. one of the key indicators is Clubbed hands and feet, the baby was born normal.

Theblondestoftheblonde · 30/06/2022 10:26

I wish the assault on women’s rights would end. This is the thin end of the wedge.

SomePosters · 30/06/2022 10:28

I was 6.5mo pregnant when my baby was diagnosed.

i was reminded by the medical team
that I could seek a late term abortion and given dire warnings about how disabled my daughter would be.

i decided against it. We had tried for that baby and being so far gone I couldn’t really begin to think about termination.

Fortunately while my dd does have many issues to face she has a life worth living.

As a parent my day to day is much harder than most fulfilling her care needs but she will go on to live independently and has an active life full of joy.

all that makes it sound like I’m anti TFMR at a late stage but I’m not.

Everyone should make their choice with their medical team and a professional counsellor, no one else gets to judge

LoveIsAFairyTale · 30/06/2022 10:31

EddieHowesBlackandWhiteArmy · 30/06/2022 09:38

@LoveIsAFairyTale exceot in your preferred scenario the baby has to go through up to another 5 weeks of pregnancy plus birth just to get to the place where pain relief can be administered to die anyway.

Isnt it kinder to end any possible suffering as soon as you become aware of the issue?

I don’t know much about fetus pain levels. I suspect the wild claims on this thread about the amount of pain a fetus feels and when are wildly exaggerated and used in a bid to control women and their feelings.

I don't know about pain levels either. My sisters were born at 28 weeks. I am only going by a baby being born at 36 weeks gestation and that they would feel pain. It's not about guilting women into doing anything. A lot comes down to what the condition is that the baby has. Are they likely to be in pain in the womb? Or will the suffering begin once on the outside?

SomePosters · 30/06/2022 10:31

And the people saying that people should put disabled babies up for adoption if they don’t feel they can cope are deluded as to what growing up in state care means for any child let alone a child with profound disability

HandlebarLadyTash · 30/06/2022 10:34

woody87 · 29/06/2022 21:44

An execution

Euthanasia

NCforgoodreason · 30/06/2022 10:35

I believe it should be down to the woman.

She's the one who has to bring up the baby, who has to give her life for the baby.

All this take away womens rights, force them to have children is ludicrous. As a planet we are extremely overpopulated, our life span has increased dramatically in most countries, we do have the resources to continually reproduce humans. We already have seen huge rise in costs, and food shortages....

Why the fuck are they doing this to us? And why as women are we not taking the streets?

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