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To complain about cleaner walking in on me naked

312 replies

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 07:20

Staying in a chain hotel, Western Europe, 8am. I'm up but also naked in bed, having a coffee. Someone knocks on the door, I ignore it, not sure if it's my door or someone else's. Then the door opens and a man calls out something, I dive under my sheets and I think I shouted out 'there's someone in here', so the door closes. I throw some clothes on, go in the corridor and say to the guy that check out is 11, and also angrily 'don't come in my room, what the hell!' I didn't have a 'do not disturb ' sign on my door, but then I wouldn't expect to have to use it if I'm checking out before 11. AIBU to complain?

OP posts:
Butterfly44 · 25/06/2022 08:23

That's what the do not disturb sign is for. How are they meant to be telepathic and know you're checking out. They are paid to clean all rooms.

EnjoyingTheSilence · 25/06/2022 08:24

You shouldn’t need a dnd sign on your door at 8am. No hotel I've ever stayed at has had cleaners at that time of the day. Far too early.

I would definitely give feedback to the hotel.

MistyRuins · 25/06/2022 08:24

You're missing the point. I'm suggesting that it's bad practice, if nothing else, to routinely wake up hotel guests at 8am on a Saturday. It's too early

And that is exactly why the do not disturb sign was invented.

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:25

"Also if you are business traveller yourself, then how come you didn’t no about the do not disturb signs because “I don't normally stay in hotels”"
New job.

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Katkinsgreyy · 25/06/2022 08:25

I might have still been fast asleep at 8am! Would they have just cleaned around me 😂
Definitely say something

fruitbrewhaha · 25/06/2022 08:25

Fimofriend · 25/06/2022 07:24

So now you have learned that the rude rule many mumsnetters live by in which they refuse to acknowledge someone knocking on their door is idiotic. Congrats. You were fully to blame.

This! He knocked, you call out "not now thank you".

Or use the flipping DND sign.

There are two really useful ways of not having someone enter your room in a hotel. He came in to do the room because although it's only 8am and you have until 11am, some people will have vacated the room by then and they can get started and cleaning.

NonagonInfinityOpensTheDoor · 25/06/2022 08:26

I'm suggesting that it's bad practice, if nothing else, to routinely wake up hotel guests at 8am on a Saturday.
Thats what the DND signs are for. Are your deliberately being obtuse here?

It's too early, ideally reception could provide a list of empty rooms/ early check-outs to the cleaners if an 8am start is needed, rather than randomly knocking on doors of people who may want some rest.
As girl mom said, they either don’t have a list of empty rooms as you can self check out, or it just takes too much organisation and, once printed is obsolete anyway as people are constantly checking out.

justfiveminutes · 25/06/2022 08:27

That must have been really shocking op. It is a shame your lie-in and coffee were disturbed. I would have hated it too. But I really do think that the DND sign is there for this very reason. You didn't put it out so he knocked. You didn't respond to the knock, so he cautiously entered. I don't think he did anything wrong really. Housekeepers get ahead by cleaning the rooms of those who leave early.

RockingMyFiftiesNot · 25/06/2022 08:29

You can't complain. The 'do not disturb' sign is there for a reason, and they did knock and you ignored it.

Lysianthus · 25/06/2022 08:29

I hope you leave a tip! Whether it's €5 or 'please don't disturb me again' is up to you...

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 25/06/2022 08:29

www.collinsdictionary.com/dictionary/english/do-not-disturb-sign

Just for those not understanding what a hotel DND sign is for.

MrsPrimulaSpread · 25/06/2022 08:29

Then you'd check the drop off box before you started @girlmom21, it's not rocket science 🙄
You don't disturb guests unnecessarily
They are paying for the room until 11

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:30

To follow through on the logic of a lot of posters here, should I then put the DND sign on the door when going to bed every night and take it off when I leave in the morning? It's not a bad idea, but I wasn't aware this was standard practice. I thought it was used for later in the day and you were staying in, tbh.

OP posts:
Strictlyfanoftenyears · 25/06/2022 08:31

Drinking a coffee whilst naked is not really the best idea OP (misses the point of thread 😂)

SandyWedges · 25/06/2022 08:31

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:19

I haven't shouted at anyone, for those admonishing me for apparently causing a disturbance. It's fairly common in the hotels I've stayed in for cleaners to start work only after check out time, it's not as shocking a suggestion as you are implying.
"Yolojo

MistyRuins I'm a business traveller myself, but it's a Saturday, not a day of work.

It is for the hotel workers"
You're missing the point. I'm suggesting that it's bad practice, if nothing else, to routinely wake up hotel guests at 8am on a Saturday. It's too early, ideally reception could provide a list of empty rooms/ early check-outs to the cleaners if an 8am start is needed, rather than randomly knocking on doors of people who may want some rest.

Its not random. Its becuase you didn't have the sign up.

SandyWedges · 25/06/2022 08:32

What time period do people think the DND sign system is operational for?

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:33

Strictlyfanoftenyears 😆

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BattenburgDonkey · 25/06/2022 08:34

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:30

To follow through on the logic of a lot of posters here, should I then put the DND sign on the door when going to bed every night and take it off when I leave in the morning? It's not a bad idea, but I wasn't aware this was standard practice. I thought it was used for later in the day and you were staying in, tbh.

Depends on the person. I do put the sign there, however wether I had or not, I wouldn’t ignore the door being knocked on in a hotel, so really I don’t need the sign, I’d just shout ‘sorry im busy’ and the staff member would go away. But if you are not wanting to even shout acknowledgement at your door when staff knock on it (because it’s obliviously very likely to be staff) then I would use the do not disturb sign without fail really. Sitting naked on the bed without a do not disturb sign on the door, and then pretending you aren’t in the room, is just a bad plan.

Mouk · 25/06/2022 08:35

YABU

He knocked, you ignored, so he presumed the room was empty.

Stop being so precious.

HarvestFly · 25/06/2022 08:36

I'm with you @Yolojo

8am is too early for cleaners to be coming into rooms. Unless it's an airport hotel who is up and out by 8am on a Saturday 🤷🏼‍♀️

MistyRuins · 25/06/2022 08:37

Yolojo · 25/06/2022 08:30

To follow through on the logic of a lot of posters here, should I then put the DND sign on the door when going to bed every night and take it off when I leave in the morning? It's not a bad idea, but I wasn't aware this was standard practice. I thought it was used for later in the day and you were staying in, tbh.

I put it up the night before if I know I won't be up early. I sometimes leave it up all day if I don't need the room cleaned (I don't drink tea or coffee so don't need that replenished). Saves them time, and there's usually enough towels to do me for at least a week.

MrsSkylerWhite · 25/06/2022 08:37

Justcallmebebes · Today 07:29
He didn't walk in on you though did he? He knocked, you ignored him, he opened the door, you screamed at him and he shut it. This is on you, not him. Poor blokes just doing his job and it's a pretty thankless one too“

this. Lesson learned. Sign or lock next time.

Zonder · 25/06/2022 08:38

I wouldn't be impressed with him knocking at 8am on a Saturday. And it is hard to tell in a hotel whose door is being knocked.

girlmom21 · 25/06/2022 08:38

MrsPrimulaSpread · 25/06/2022 08:29

Then you'd check the drop off box before you started @girlmom21, it's not rocket science 🙄
You don't disturb guests unnecessarily
They are paying for the room until 11

And how about the guests who aren't checking out and just need their rooms cleaned each day?

coffeecupsandfairylights · 25/06/2022 08:38

MrsPrimulaSpread · 25/06/2022 08:29

Then you'd check the drop off box before you started @girlmom21, it's not rocket science 🙄
You don't disturb guests unnecessarily
They are paying for the room until 11

And by the time they've checked the box, gone round and started cleaning, numerous other people will have checked out 🙄

Cleaner did nothing wrong. OP should have used the DND sign or answered the door!