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Not to pick up FIL father's day card?

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JulyDreams · 10/06/2022 11:31

Am I nasty if I buy my own father a Father’s Day card at the shop today but don’t pick one up for father in law? Is that not my DP’s responsibility? My own dad has a very different relationship with me and DP.

Couple of background problems with me and DP’s family anyway (I have posted previously about MIL not really wanting a relationship with me but only happy that she still gets to see DP and doesn’t have to worry about me). Post was called MIL strange question.

I have also bought presents and cards for his side of the family so he doesn’t have to worry. There is a very good chance they wouldn’t know I hadn’t gone to the effort and just thanked DP when they saw him without me there.

I don’t want to come across as spiteful at all here just wanted a couple of opinions. Should I leave it?

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BanjoVio · 11/06/2022 23:28

I bought one for my dad ages ago and not FIL. Not my dad = not my job 💁🏼‍♀️ If the card gets forgotten, it’s DP’s responsibility. I have a job and it is not to be my DP’s personal assistant.

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