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Anyone here over 55 with both parents alive? Or know anyone who is?

150 replies

Carbaholic876 · 30/05/2022 12:48

Just out of interest

OP posts:
StopStartStop · 30/05/2022 15:34

I was 55 in 2012 and had both parents still alive at that time. My dad is still with us.

dapsnotplimsolls · 30/05/2022 15:44

I can only think of one person I know who's over 55 and still has both parents. She's 56, I think both parents are in their 80s.

londonmummy1966 · 30/05/2022 15:54

I'm 55 and both parents are still alive. DM is 85 and has Parkinsons but DF has just turned 89 and still swims a mile every Friday morning.

BertieQueen · 30/05/2022 15:56

Nearly 40 and still have my grandparents they are early 80’s

steppemum · 30/05/2022 16:01

I'm 54.
Both parents still alive well and active.
They are 80.

dh is 52, dad still alive and well (dh's mum and FIL's second wife both dead)

One set of grandparents died quite late, my Mum was 52 when her dad died (aged 92) and then 62 when her mum died.

Shellingbynight · 30/05/2022 21:07

My mother was 75 when her parents died - they died within a fortnight of each other. Her mother died at 93, father at 97.

I'm 65 and my mother is alive (if you can call it living, she has very severe dementia. She's 87). No idea if my father is dead or alive.

Norma27 · 31/05/2022 06:28

My siblings are over 55 and both our parents are still alive. My husband is 55 now and both parents alive but sadly one is on end of life care.

110APiccadilly · 31/05/2022 06:38

Not any more, but both my mum and dad were over 55 before either lost a parent. My grandparents were all parents at a relatively young age (early to mid 20s). I don't see that pattern repeating as my parents were in their mid thirties when they had me, and I was in my mid thirties when I had my daughter.

110APiccadilly · 31/05/2022 06:39

I was in my early, not mid thirties. Not that it really matters.

bert3400 · 31/05/2022 06:49

I'm nearly 55 and both sets (mine & DH) alive and well. Infact my mum at 75 is travelling more this year than me .....she has just come back from Dubai after taking all her grandchildren there for her birthday. She's amazing

Troublesometooth · 31/05/2022 06:52

My dad is 63 and both his parents are alive.

My mother in law is 59 and her grandma is still alive meaning my children have a great great grandma!

Spikeyball · 31/05/2022 07:00

I'm 53 and have both still alive in their 70s.

JessicaBrassica · 31/05/2022 07:00

I have several friends in their 60s with both parents still alive and a mid 40s friend with a very independent granny.
I lost one parent in my 30s and the other diagnosed with dementia soon after so I'm slightly envious.

fadediris · 31/05/2022 07:14

Yes, my parents are over 60 and both have both parents still alive - in their 90s. I’m in my 40s with all grandparents still alive, which I think is rare.

sundayweatherwatch · 31/05/2022 07:19

My dad died at 65, he was outlived by his mum and stepmum. My mum lost her dad at 63 and her mum at 66.

sundayweatherwatch · 31/05/2022 07:20

On the other hand if I live until my daughter is mid 60s I'll be 100+ 😂

TeaAndChoccie · 31/05/2022 07:24

Nope. I'm 42 and both parents have died :(

Covetthee · 31/05/2022 07:28

My MIL is 63 and both her parents are still alive and doing quite well for being in their 90’s.

rainbowandglitter · 31/05/2022 07:31

Yes my mum is 60 and has both parents alive. My nan is in her 70s and has her dad alive. Her mum only died 5 years ago.

Fizbosshoes · 31/05/2022 07:37

Interesting to read how many people well into adulthood have grandparents still alive. Obviously a lot depends on the age people have children.

All my GPS died by the time I was 3, (2 before I was born) so I have no memories of any of them. I had DC in my 20s/early 30s but by the time they were 11 and 14 they only had 1 GP left.

ElenaSt · 31/05/2022 07:37

Me.

ballroompink · 31/05/2022 07:40

My dad's parents are still alive. He's 63 and they're 82.

Thebeastofsleep · 31/05/2022 07:40

My paternal grandparents are both still alive, and my dad is 63.

Londonnight · 31/05/2022 07:41

I am 63, still have both parents. Both now in their mid 80's

motogirl · 31/05/2022 07:41

Dp has his mother still, my parents friend is 72 and has her mother alive