There you go again, getting personal at me. Can you please stop making assumptions about me I.e., how high my bar is, that I won't believe victims of abuse etc., simply because I have a different way of looking at things than you.
I also haven't made any judgements about AH as a person. I've simply commented that based on the evidence I don't believe her and I think her behaviour in this instance has been appalling.
I actually try not to judge anyone and instead recognise the complexities of being human. If that worldview means I have a low bar, then so be it.