I am 100% on JD side. I’m saying that as someone who has never been a fan of his, been a victim of DV and been in extremely toxic relationships.
I fully believe she was the abuser. She has set out to destroy JD because she thinks she is superior and a classic abuser. The recording of her laughing and mocking his career, calling him fat, washed up, he was the biggest bloody star on the planet when she hooked up with him. At no point in that recording did I hear a victim of DV, at no point in any of the recordings dose she come across as a victim. However, he clearly dose.
I agree he’s said some vile things, but that what happens in a toxic relationship. It destroys who you are and people in toxic relationships lash out and become someone they are not. I know that’s what it was like for me. Having this discussion with a lady in the hairdressers today, she 100% agreed, she’d also been in a toxic relationship and did things she’d never dream of. I’m not excusing his behaviour but I do think everything needs to be taken in context especially with his well known and documented drug and alcohol addictions.
Also being in one toxic relationship dose not make you a toxic person in general! JD has had plenty of healthy relationships, this is shown by his ex’s willing to defend him.
People keep ranting on about misogyny, that has nothing to do with this, people are coming out to support JD because they believe he is the victim. When AH first accused him, so many people believed her, it’s only because her lies have been exposed that she is now facing this backlash which she fully deserves, she had no problem with the public and media believing she was a victim and vilifying him, even going on chat shows claiming she’d HAD donated her meger divorce settlement because she apparently wanted nothing from him.
The whole LA courthouse was a set up, I’ve no idea if the bruise was real, I suspect not given all the pictures there are of her with no bruise. I read somewhere that restraining orders don’t have people testifying, the lawyers send their submissions to the judge who decides in chambers, quite often the lawyers will send a runner to get the restraining order. I’ve no idea if this is true, but I do know that the courthouse has multiple entrances, many used by celebrities on a regular basis to avoid the press, she could have used any one of these but choose to walk through the main entrance with her publicist… She admitted (although she realised her error straight away) in her deposition that TMZ had been notified, she also lied saying she had no idea how the media knew about her being there… She 100% wanted the publicity and was jumping on the back of the me too bandwagon to prove she was able to bring down one of hollywoods biggest stars.
Many people believed, long before this she was physically abusing her sister and her sister is to scared to defend herself. This is dating back prior to AH meeting JD. Just like the assault charge on her ex partner. There is video taken from years before meeting JD of her sister with bruises and scratches that highly suggested AH had inflicted.
There are far too many lies and contradictions to list from her, whereas JDs story has been consistent through.
Someone upthread said that he should have let this go, gone to rehab and move on, why should he? If he was a woman would you be saying the same? He has had his entire reputation destroyed by a woman who has proven time and time again that she is a violent manipulative liar, he should be able to tell his side of the story. He also has children who have had to live with their father being accused of abusing and beating his wife beater. I don’t believe he cares about the loss of earnings, I think he cares about the truth being known, even if that truth shows a side of him he didn’t want people to know about. He’s shown he’s no longer ashamed and is standing up against his abuser which is what we encourage victims of DV to do.
This woman has set back the plight of women who of genuinely victims of DV by years, she 100% needs to be called out on it.