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Who will win between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard defamation case

681 replies

Egtermekaar · 25/05/2022 14:49

If you were jury in this case, how would you decide?

I think Johnny Depp will win because he had strong, reliable and consistent evidence of "his" case

I hope MN will allow debate about a matter of public interest.

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Tillsforthrills · 03/06/2022 14:32

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:22

Is he not allowed to socialise with or take drink and drugs with Kate?

Are people seriously expecting us to believe that she socialises wiht a man who threw her down the stairs?

Amber's statement on IG showed that the fight is far from ove r- she wants a bloody retrial! there's only one abuser chasing their victim through the courts to carry on harassing them and it's not Johnny.

Of course he can and does do drugs with his rich influential friends, if there’s anything we’ve learned he does what the hell he likes.

She’s very silly to go to retrial with such a huge star, she’s been put through a kind of hell and witch hunt that isn’t commensurate with her sins.

The US justice system has come off as a trashy circus in this trial.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:33

Tillsforthrills · 03/06/2022 14:32

Of course he can and does do drugs with his rich influential friends, if there’s anything we’ve learned he does what the hell he likes.

She’s very silly to go to retrial with such a huge star, she’s been put through a kind of hell and witch hunt that isn’t commensurate with her sins.

The US justice system has come off as a trashy circus in this trial.

he doesn't do what the hell he likes, the man has been ripped apart for weeks.

She's silly to go to retrial when she's been proven as an abusive liar. She made it a circus. He just wants to be done with her, she's the one pushing this now.

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 14:36

What I don't understand is - if these horrendous things have happened on both sides, why is no one pursuing a criminal trial?

Tillsforthrills · 03/06/2022 14:37

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:33

he doesn't do what the hell he likes, the man has been ripped apart for weeks.

She's silly to go to retrial when she's been proven as an abusive liar. She made it a circus. He just wants to be done with her, she's the one pushing this now.

Eh? He’s been ‘ripped apart’? That’s a bit of a stretch, he has many adoring fans like you who believe his purity and innocence.

Of course he’s done with it, he succeeded in what he wanted - completely destroying her.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:38

Tillsforthrills · 03/06/2022 14:37

Eh? He’s been ‘ripped apart’? That’s a bit of a stretch, he has many adoring fans like you who believe his purity and innocence.

Of course he’s done with it, he succeeded in what he wanted - completely destroying her.

I'm not an adoring fan, and I don't think he's pure, I think he's very troubled. I do think he's innocent of abusing her though, as do most people.

I would say having the abuse of your mother, mocking his children, encouraging him to self harm and accusations of raping her with a broken bottle is ripped apart.

She destroyed herself. She'd have been more than happy to finish him, but gladly it backfired.

Re the criminal trial - yes, one does wonder why poor Amber didn't go to the police for her many vicious assaults (and no, its' not because she was 'scared' to come forward).

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:39

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:33

he doesn't do what the hell he likes, the man has been ripped apart for weeks.

She's silly to go to retrial when she's been proven as an abusive liar. She made it a circus. He just wants to be done with her, she's the one pushing this now.

So ripped apart was he that he stood outside blowing kisses and waving to his fans.

Then he flues to England gets on stage and has the terminity to perform like a rock star.

He is now out partying.

He is loving the attention.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:40

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:39

So ripped apart was he that he stood outside blowing kisses and waving to his fans.

Then he flues to England gets on stage and has the terminity to perform like a rock star.

He is now out partying.

He is loving the attention.

Good. About time he got his life back.

TheEnemy123 · 03/06/2022 14:43

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:29

When have I made several comments through out this thread about drink and drugs. Then you twist it i am thinking I'm better....is there anything wrong with taking drugs you ask? 🤔 I guess the answer is how do you behave when you are on them and what effects they have.

Genuine question my backside. A poor attempt at gaslighting

Quite literally, the only people gaslighting on this thread are those defending AH and telling everyone else that they're wrong. You should be ashamed of yourselves.

You're happy for false evidence in the UK trial to stand, i.e. the smashing up a trailer story which the trailer park owner has now refuted, yet anyone corroborating anything JD says is clearly lying, the UK case result was fair and just and the US one not. You've got a woman making things up as she goes, showing all the hallmarks of a compulsive liar when contradicting herself and forgetting what lies she's told, perjuring herself in the process and you STILL won't accept who and what she is.

I don't say something like this lightly, but some of the AH defenders on here are either mentally ill or just hate men THAT much.

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:44

You are so deluded and protective of abusers you have to ask yourself why. Can you not possibly believe your hero can do bad things.

He won because of who he is not what he did. I am arguing the process was deeply flawed. Stop making it personal

Every time you say he is a victim you are insulting all those genuine victims whose lives are ruined by manipulative bullies like him.

Thank God I don't live in America. This whole case was an utter farce. I thought we'd moved on from Jerry Springer TV.

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:54

As for why didn't she go to the police? Many many victims dont due to the trauma and being scared. She was right.

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 14:55

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:54

As for why didn't she go to the police? Many many victims dont due to the trauma and being scared. She was right.

This is true but it makes me wonder why neither bring criminal charges now for the allegations.

felineweird · 03/06/2022 14:55

@BobbinHood you are a disgrace to say that you are 'better' than someone with an addiction. You personally know all addicts do you?

If a friend came to you worried they were becoming addicted to something would you try and help them or flounce off yelling that you are a better person than them? If it's the former you are a hypocrite, if it's the latter it's YOU that's fucking foul

Aspiringmatriarch · 03/06/2022 14:56

RosieRooster83 · 03/06/2022 14:36

What I don't understand is - if these horrendous things have happened on both sides, why is no one pursuing a criminal trial?

He waited until the statute of limitations ran out on domestic abuse. Then sued for defamation. I don't think she ever wanted to pursue him criminally. It's pretty rare to do that.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:56

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:44

You are so deluded and protective of abusers you have to ask yourself why. Can you not possibly believe your hero can do bad things.

He won because of who he is not what he did. I am arguing the process was deeply flawed. Stop making it personal

Every time you say he is a victim you are insulting all those genuine victims whose lives are ruined by manipulative bullies like him.

Thank God I don't live in America. This whole case was an utter farce. I thought we'd moved on from Jerry Springer TV.

The Enemy is a domestic abuse victim and is still supporting Johnny. Why?

btw, hes not my hero! I don't care if hes famous, id say the same regardless.

He is a victim.

Amber is the manipulative bully who has disgraced real victims.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:57

Aspiringmatriarch · 03/06/2022 14:56

He waited until the statute of limitations ran out on domestic abuse. Then sued for defamation. I don't think she ever wanted to pursue him criminally. It's pretty rare to do that.

Of course she didnt. Because she was lying.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:57

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:54

As for why didn't she go to the police? Many many victims dont due to the trauma and being scared. She was right.

trauma and being scared yet participated in a trial on national TV and again yesterday morning wants to do another one? okdoke.

minutesturntohours · 03/06/2022 14:58

TheEnemy123 · 03/06/2022 14:43

Quite literally, the only people gaslighting on this thread are those defending AH and telling everyone else that they're wrong. You should be ashamed of yourselves.

You're happy for false evidence in the UK trial to stand, i.e. the smashing up a trailer story which the trailer park owner has now refuted, yet anyone corroborating anything JD says is clearly lying, the UK case result was fair and just and the US one not. You've got a woman making things up as she goes, showing all the hallmarks of a compulsive liar when contradicting herself and forgetting what lies she's told, perjuring herself in the process and you STILL won't accept who and what she is.

I don't say something like this lightly, but some of the AH defenders on here are either mentally ill or just hate men THAT much.

this.

And the irony is, I don't know why they are supporting her, because she is ruining their cause. She is riding the coat tails of abused women, and they've fallen for it!

Midlifemusings · 03/06/2022 15:03

Johnny has been playing music and in a band and touring since before he as an actor. He is and has always been a musician. He is also an artist / painter.

He didn't fly to England to pretend to be a rock star. He flew to England because he likely had a contractual commitment as a musician.

This trial is mostly harmful to men or women who intended to make false allegations. This trial and verdict has really put truth and honesty at the forefront and said - to those of you tleling the truth about being abused - we hear you, we see you. To those of you making up lies or flipping the scrip to try and make your victim out to be abusive - we won't stand for that.

Johnny is an imperfect victim, far from an angel or a hero. We all know victims can be imperfect and can act in many different ways. We also know Johnny had childhood trauma and has had to deal with addiction since he was a child. These both absolutely impact him and his life in varying ways.

It seems there is a debate as to whether a victim should be called an abuser when they react to the abuse directed at them. Some think that yes - any action regardless of the dynamic makes you an abuser and so Johnny is an abuser and not just a reactive victim. Others think that reactions are not abusive as they are not motivated by abuse but more out of furstration and helplessness - in that case Johnny is not an abuser. Whether or not Johnny is an abuser comes down to your view on mutual abuse. We know Amber is an abuser - is her victim also an abuser when he reacts? When he expresses frustration or anger? When he has had enough of the abuse and wants out?

BobbinHood · 03/06/2022 15:04

felineweird · 03/06/2022 14:55

@BobbinHood you are a disgrace to say that you are 'better' than someone with an addiction. You personally know all addicts do you?

If a friend came to you worried they were becoming addicted to something would you try and help them or flounce off yelling that you are a better person than them? If it's the former you are a hypocrite, if it's the latter it's YOU that's fucking foul

A disgrace…foul…keep em coming. JD doesn’t need you cheerleaders to protect him, he’s a big boy I’m sure he can handle the fact some random woman on the internet says she is a better person than him (and in fact is a better person) because she’s never headbutted her spouse, lost jobs through drink and drugs, appeared pissed on stage, described in detail how she wants to rape someone’s corpse and generally been the absolute opposite of a good parent.

I wouldn’t be friends with someone in the first place who was snorting their fortune up their nose and chucking away their own career so that’s a moot point. Nothing more boring than cokeheads. I don’t know all addicts, thank fuck. But I’ve met enough.

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 15:05

Now he is releasing an album to capitalise on his infamy. You couldn't make it up.

No doubt he will give the proceeds to a domestic abuse charity. Might even dedicate a song to victims.

Look up machiavellian. This is him.

Aspiringmatriarch · 03/06/2022 15:06

@minutesturntohours You are VILE. Just vile. Spewing misinformation for the hell of it. Hoping some of it gains traction or people are misinformed and believe you I guess? She had NO CHOICE but to take part in this trial as you damn well know. She never said he raped her with a broken bottle, never encouraged him to self harm. You are the Donald Trump of this thread, you don't even pretend to care about what's true and what's false. I hate that this is what society has become.

justfiveminutes · 03/06/2022 15:06

Have any dv organisations watched the trial and come out to support AH? I googled but could only find some who supported JD. I'm genuinely curious. If she's managed to convince some on mn then presumably there'll be organisations wanting to affiliate with her.

TheEnemy123 · 03/06/2022 15:07

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:44

You are so deluded and protective of abusers you have to ask yourself why. Can you not possibly believe your hero can do bad things.

He won because of who he is not what he did. I am arguing the process was deeply flawed. Stop making it personal

Every time you say he is a victim you are insulting all those genuine victims whose lives are ruined by manipulative bullies like him.

Thank God I don't live in America. This whole case was an utter farce. I thought we'd moved on from Jerry Springer TV.

More pish. You're the only one defending an abuser, yet you throw that out. Pathetic attempt at deflection.

TheEnemy123 · 03/06/2022 15:08

mynamesnotMa · 03/06/2022 14:39

So ripped apart was he that he stood outside blowing kisses and waving to his fans.

Then he flues to England gets on stage and has the terminity to perform like a rock star.

He is now out partying.

He is loving the attention.

And good on him. He's got his life back after years of torture from a confirmed abuser 👍

felineweird · 03/06/2022 15:10

@BobbinHood yes, yes you're better than anyone else. Wouldn't be friends with a coke head...that's not actually what I asked. You wouldn't be friends with someone who likes a drink but is worried its spiralling? So, you are not friends with anyone who is at ANY risk at all of becoming addicted to ANYTHING?! You clearly have very few friends then, and I can see why. Stating you are 'better' than other people...give me strength. You sound as narcissistic as the woman you are defending!

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