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to not want all models to look like 'real' women?

237 replies

beattieedny · 21/05/2022 18:31

Just that really. I am much more likely to buy clothing if the model looks like looks slim. I don't care for the current thing of showing clothes (aside from specifically for plus sized ofc) on fat people. It's not as attractive.
I am a thin person but have been fat by the way.

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mogtheexcellent · 21/05/2022 20:33

YANBU

Im an 18-20 and hate seeing clothes on larger models. Also hate seeing them on super slim ones. I prefer seeing them on 12-16 size so you get an idea of the shape.

I think a lot of online shopping images are influencers etc as companies discovered they can save on costs doing this during lockdown. It doesnt work for me.

aSofaNearYou · 21/05/2022 20:35

Im an 18-20 and hate seeing clothes on larger models. Also hate seeing them on super slim ones. I prefer seeing them on 12-16 size so you get an idea of the shape.

But 12-16 are "normal women", the kind of women OP is talking about are at most 10 or under. It would be ideal for most if they actually showed clothes on 12-16 women.

InPraiseOfBacchus · 21/05/2022 20:38

Blossomtoes · 21/05/2022 20:26

worry that we're normalising obesity.

We don’t need to normalise it. It seems that if current trends continue, overweight people will be the majority in the UK. It’s normal now. It seems very strange to me that fashion labels alienate a substantial customer group by using models who look nothing like them.

I love seeing women who don’t fit the stereotypes of attractiveness. Andi Oliver looks wonderful - no hair, huge gap in her teeth, overweight and bloody gorgeous.

Too late - overweight people make up over half of the UK population, and a larger majority each year.

Meanwhile it gets more difficult to find clothes that fit my slim body, as brand inflate a size "small" to mean "10-12" (actual sizes in Primark) and size 6 clothes gets pulled from the shelves for "encouraging bad body image" (this actually happened while I worked in a department store).

At the same time, the body types that people decry as "painfully thin" and "eating disordered" and (ugh!) "weight suppressed" get larger every year. This year it's a size 10. What will it be like in another ten years' time?

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:39

I’m with you OP.

It’s an unpopular opinion but if I’m honest I prefer to see clothes modelled on slim women. I’m slim and look after my body and lately I’ve been put off buying things because they don’t look nice on the model! I can’t picture what it would look like on me, so I don’t buy.

I’ve noticed this especially for period pants, strangely. All the models are fat!

(There are also issues with normalising being overweight, which I don’t think is good for our young girls. Fat isn’t healthy. But that’s for another thread.)

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:42

Which are the sites that don't predominantly use slim women?

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 20:42

Too late - overweight people make up over half of the UK population, and a larger majority each year.

Meanwhile it gets more difficult to find clothes that fit my slim body, as brand inflate a size "small" to mean "10-12" (actual sizes in Primark) and size 6 clothes gets pulled from the shelves for "encouraging bad body image" (this actually happened while I worked in a department store).

At the same time, the body types that people decry as "painfully thin" and "eating disordered" and (ugh!) "weight suppressed" get larger every year. This year it's a size 10. What will it be like in another ten years' time?

Lol. What a load of fat shaming shit.

Blossomtoes · 21/05/2022 20:43

Does anyone seriously care what period pants look like? I can’t imagine a more purely functional garment!

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:44

What about disabled women? They’re hugely underrepresented, would this be “normalising” disability if more of those adverts were shown?

Normalising obesity is NOT the same as ‘normalising’ disability! Ffs! Obesity is a choice.

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:46

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 20:42

Too late - overweight people make up over half of the UK population, and a larger majority each year.

Meanwhile it gets more difficult to find clothes that fit my slim body, as brand inflate a size "small" to mean "10-12" (actual sizes in Primark) and size 6 clothes gets pulled from the shelves for "encouraging bad body image" (this actually happened while I worked in a department store).

At the same time, the body types that people decry as "painfully thin" and "eating disordered" and (ugh!) "weight suppressed" get larger every year. This year it's a size 10. What will it be like in another ten years' time?

Lol. What a load of fat shaming shit.

I think the phrase ‘fat shaming’ is actually part of the problem.

if a GP tells you you need to lose weight because you are putting your health at risk, is that fat shaming?

To tackle the obesity epidemic we’re going to have to start being honest: fat is unhealthy. And to those people who say, ‘Well, too thin is unhealthy too’ - we don’t have a thin epidemic.

x2boys · 21/05/2022 20:46

Most women want to wear clothes that flatter them regardless of their size it's good retailer's are recognising this.

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:47

Blossomtoes · 21/05/2022 20:43

Does anyone seriously care what period pants look like? I can’t imagine a more purely functional garment!

I do. Just because I’m on my period doesn’t mean I want to look crap.

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 20:47

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:44

What about disabled women? They’re hugely underrepresented, would this be “normalising” disability if more of those adverts were shown?

Normalising obesity is NOT the same as ‘normalising’ disability! Ffs! Obesity is a choice.

So is stupidity by the looks of it.

The fat shaming on this thread is appalling.

EveningOverRooftops · 21/05/2022 20:47

Some shops give you the option to select your ‘model preference’ and will show the clothes in that sized model. I do love flicking though the images at how different items look on different shapes too.

I think that should be the norm with an outfit shown on at least two different model sizes/body shapes. It should be the standard and would present a range of what’s normal not the current niche that’s presented.

im an 18 atm. I am curvy big arse and boobs with a slim (in comparison) waist so an item of clothing in a model of any size with that body shape will give me an idea of how I’ll look. On some of the obese women who are very round it’s not helpful for me but I can see women who would benefit from seeing clothes on that model. Ditto the super skinny no curves models.

Brieandcamembert · 21/05/2022 20:49

I think a models should have a healthy BMI. We shouldn't be normalising underweight and we definitely shouldn't be normalising overweight.

I don't necessarily think they should look perfect but absolutely should not be normalising being overweight.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:49

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:42

Which are the sites that don't predominantly use slim women?

Any?

orchidsunrise · 21/05/2022 20:50

This is such a click bait thread 😂

pattish · 21/05/2022 20:50

orwellwasright · 21/05/2022 20:47

So is stupidity by the looks of it.

The fat shaming on this thread is appalling.

@orwellwasright

Why is it appalling?

Jalepenojello · 21/05/2022 20:51

YABU you’re hardly short on slim models ffs

MyneighbourisTotoro · 21/05/2022 20:54

YABU

The majority of models are very thin and very tall.

I’m thin (size 6) but only around 5”6. I’d love to see shorter models, it’s hard to imagine what clothes will look like on my frame when all the models are 5”10!

I applaud any company who uses models of all shapes and sizes!

Brieandcamembert · 21/05/2022 20:54

The fat shaming on this thread is appalling.

its not shaming to say that models should be healthy looking.

ScarlettSunset · 21/05/2022 20:55

I'd like to see clothes on a range of sizes so I can get more idea of what an item might realistically look like on someone my size.
I'd also like to see places at least tell you the height of the model too so you can figure out how long some clothes are.

Blossomtoes · 21/05/2022 20:55

If a GP tells you you need to lose weight because you are putting your health at risk, is that fat shaming?

Never happens. My bloke was very overweight at one point with T2 diabetes and hypertension. I was astonished that no hca ever suggested that losing weight would be a good idea. Most people would accept it from a doctor @pattish, it’s definitely fat shaming from some random.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:55

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:49

Any?

Any?

IrisVersicolor · 21/05/2022 20:57

I very much like seeing a diversity of models and welcome the trend towards ‘real’ women whatever that means,

I’m small so what clothes look like on a 5’11 model is largely irrelevant.

MurderAtTheBeautyPageant · 21/05/2022 20:57

Brieandcamembert · 21/05/2022 20:54

The fat shaming on this thread is appalling.

its not shaming to say that models should be healthy looking.

Pull up a chair.

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