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Eurovision... Can it please be done now?

123 replies

Icantfindtherightshoe · 14/05/2022 23:05

Had a lovely day today while DS was with his and DD's Dad. Went around my hometown with DD and looked at old buildings. She knew more than me about most of it due to a school trip she just took. We went to a local pub and had a nice meal. Neither of us wanted to watch the TV so I asked if we could sit in a quiet area. Fortunately we were seated in a booth and the TV was muted. Or maybe it was just too far away for us to hear.

The moment we sat down a couple in their forties (I guess) turned to us and asked who we were voting for. I blinked and said "Sorry. Not sure what you're on about" and the lady pointed to the TV looking at me like I'd grown another head. I politely said "Oh we don't watch the Eurovision" and left it at that. Our food came and she loudly proclaimed that Spain's song was rather good.

I'm sure it is. But I literally hear nothing else at the moment and it's driving me bananas

AIBU in thinking it should all be over with or on late at night when no one's really awake?

And yes I am prepared to get flamed for this

OP posts:
Florenz · 14/05/2022 23:09

It's on for one day a year. Why get so upset about it?

takingmytimeonmyride · 14/05/2022 23:10

Bananas? You need to listen to Norway's song. 😉

ButtockUp · 14/05/2022 23:11

I didn't even know it was on !

Viviennemary · 14/05/2022 23:13

I watched it for the first time in years. It doesnt really get any better. I suppose its is very awfulness thats appealing.

PurpleDaisies · 14/05/2022 23:15

I’m surprise you’ve found it so hard to avoid.

WingBingo · 14/05/2022 23:17

We are winning. “What is happening” is trending on twitter!

i think this is epic

BodenseeBoden · 14/05/2022 23:18

You better turn off your TV and radio for a whole year, if the UK wins...

Mrsteapot42 · 14/05/2022 23:20

BodenseeBoden · 14/05/2022 23:18

You better turn off your TV and radio for a whole year, if the UK wins...

Yup

I'm surprised you missed the FA cup final. Went to penalties and everything.

CoralBells · 14/05/2022 23:29

The woman was only being friendly. She probably wished she hadn't bothered!

AngelinaFibres · 14/05/2022 23:30

You sound great fun Op. You don't like Eurovision. That's your choice. I don't like children in pubs. That's my choice.

Binsk · 14/05/2022 23:31

You have to have mentioned bananas on purpose, OP. 😂🇳🇴

inmyslippers · 14/05/2022 23:34

Spain was very good admittedly

Sometimeswinning · 14/05/2022 23:37

I'm not sure what is wrong with you to be so put out about this? You've had such a great day but this is what you post about?

DracarysThis · 14/05/2022 23:42

Eurovision is beloved by those of us a queer identity - it's like a big gay Christmas and is a high-camp, fun. It's been super supportive and recognises it's massive LGBTQ+ audience. YABVVVVVVVU

5foot5 · 15/05/2022 00:29

AIBU in thinking it should all be over with or on late at night when no one's really awake?
Well surely you can see how Unreasonable you are for yourself without anyone else having to point it out.

This is an enormously popular show so why on earth would they show it at a time nobody is watching. We are lucky in this country that the BBCs contribution ensures it always starts at 8pm no matter where it is held.

5foot5 · 15/05/2022 00:31

inmyslippers · 14/05/2022 23:34

Spain was very good admittedly

Well I think it probably owed much of its popularity to how much arse the lead singer had on show

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 15/05/2022 00:49

You're being ridiculous. If you don't like it, don't watch it. For lots of people it's a great evening.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 15/05/2022 00:51

You know how a lot of men routinely ask why there's an IWD (completely oblivious to the existence of IMD) and say how unnecessary and ridiculous it all is - before being smartly told that every other day is basically IMD?

Well, this is the frivolous TV/hobby equivalent of that. Sport is absolutely everywhere throughout the year and dominating the TV schedules, forcing the rest of the programmes to be cancelled, postponed, moved to another channel where we miss them or, if we're 'lucky', only delayed by half an hour or so.

People - especially men - will speak as though everybody loves it and will ask which team you support. When you tell them you're not interested in football, they'll still persist as to which team you 'would' support etc. Constantly boring on about it, many of them - all through the year.

We Eurovision fans get two relatively low-key semi-finals, which sit there quietly on BBC3 or BBC4 for those who are interested to watch, but otherwise unmentioned; and ONE four-hour evening/night each year. We don't even have the 'Making Your Mind Up' (or similar) televised song selection process any more.

We get that loads of people don't like/don't care/hate it - and that's totally fine. Life would be boring if we all liked the same thing. However, if we're seriously talking about popular hobbies that are culturally forced on to people who aren't interested in them, I could think of dozens that are way higher in their impact on non-fans than Eurovision ever will be.

Incidentally, have you seen all of the thuggery, hatred, misogyny, vindictiveness, in-fighting, aggression, angry tribalism, grudges and other violence that goes hand-in-hand with Eurovision, with fans using Eurovision as 'justification' for their behaviour? No, you won't have done....

PutinIsAWarCriminal · 15/05/2022 00:52

Its good fun. Europe needed it this year more than ever. The result was perfect, the whole of Europe showed solidarity with Ukraine with the UK in a fantastic 2nd place.

Toucan123 · 15/05/2022 00:56

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 15/05/2022 00:51

You know how a lot of men routinely ask why there's an IWD (completely oblivious to the existence of IMD) and say how unnecessary and ridiculous it all is - before being smartly told that every other day is basically IMD?

Well, this is the frivolous TV/hobby equivalent of that. Sport is absolutely everywhere throughout the year and dominating the TV schedules, forcing the rest of the programmes to be cancelled, postponed, moved to another channel where we miss them or, if we're 'lucky', only delayed by half an hour or so.

People - especially men - will speak as though everybody loves it and will ask which team you support. When you tell them you're not interested in football, they'll still persist as to which team you 'would' support etc. Constantly boring on about it, many of them - all through the year.

We Eurovision fans get two relatively low-key semi-finals, which sit there quietly on BBC3 or BBC4 for those who are interested to watch, but otherwise unmentioned; and ONE four-hour evening/night each year. We don't even have the 'Making Your Mind Up' (or similar) televised song selection process any more.

We get that loads of people don't like/don't care/hate it - and that's totally fine. Life would be boring if we all liked the same thing. However, if we're seriously talking about popular hobbies that are culturally forced on to people who aren't interested in them, I could think of dozens that are way higher in their impact on non-fans than Eurovision ever will be.

Incidentally, have you seen all of the thuggery, hatred, misogyny, vindictiveness, in-fighting, aggression, angry tribalism, grudges and other violence that goes hand-in-hand with Eurovision, with fans using Eurovision as 'justification' for their behaviour? No, you won't have done....

Love this post!

SwedishEdith · 15/05/2022 00:57

Loads of pubs don't have tvs so why go to one with it on?

Hadn't thought about the 20:00 start much before and than for some countries the voting goes on to 02:00+

Dauncets · 15/05/2022 01:11

I'M UP IN SPACE MAAA-AAA-AAN

FlissyPaps · 15/05/2022 01:12

YABU.

You don’t have to watch it. Or engage in conversation and take notice of people who do.

Unsure what historical buildings and home towns have to do with it though.

BadLad · 15/05/2022 01:24

Went around my hometown with DD and looked at old buildings. She knew more than me about most of it due to a school trip she just took.

I love this little detail.

Dauncets · 15/05/2022 01:29

Unsure what historical buildings and home towns have to do with it though.

Agreed.

Maybe OP is in love with a fairytale?

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