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Feel sick with the shame

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Pumpupthejammin · 29/04/2022 22:37

I hit/smacked my almost 4 year old Dd today, never have before.
Her behaviour has been so so difficult for the last couple of months. Today she was shouting at me, her grandma, hitting and kicking me, she wouldn’t stop.
She cried afterwards and I held her.
Sitting here crying as I feel so horrendous, wish I could take it back

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doveseternal · 30/04/2022 19:05

@Blarting
I do indeed have some good irl friends. Why do you ask? Are you lonely?
Try joining a hobby club. Perhaps someone will like you.

Blarting · 30/04/2022 19:11

doveseternal · 30/04/2022 19:05

@Blarting
I do indeed have some good irl friends. Why do you ask? Are you lonely?
Try joining a hobby club. Perhaps someone will like you.

Well that's a lovely comment, at least you've shown how awful you are very quickly.

What hobby club, would you suggest I join out of interest?

Not sure what hubby clubs got to do with you're awful post.

Repost to SS! You do know they're dealing with 1000s of real issues? Starved children, beaten children and you would report a one of incident, making the resources stretch further. Children like baby P, must be so thankful to you.

Me, if I knew someone who like OP had a one off lapse, would offer support and care, but I suppose we're all different?

doveseternal · 30/04/2022 19:17

@Blarting perhaps a club that educates one about childhood abuse and parenting?

Nonetheless, I'm sure your children are 'safe' in your care as you agree with child abuse.

Blarting · 30/04/2022 19:23

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Goldijobsandthe3bears · 30/04/2022 19:25

doveseternal · 30/04/2022 19:17

@Blarting perhaps a club that educates one about childhood abuse and parenting?

Nonetheless, I'm sure your children are 'safe' in your care as you agree with child abuse.

@Blarting Just ignore the wind up merchant

doveseternal · 30/04/2022 19:28

@Blarting

How odd you'd think 'because of people like me baby P died.'

Perhaps the public who didn't report the abuse of him are partially responsible for his death. Ignoring children being abused makes one partially responsible for their abuse/death but I'm sure you aren't quite ready for that conversation.

Blarting · 30/04/2022 20:01

@Goldijobsandthe3bears yeah you're right! Total wind up merchant!

Goldijobsandthe3bears · 30/04/2022 20:03

Blarting · 30/04/2022 20:01

@Goldijobsandthe3bears yeah you're right! Total wind up merchant!

I just hope the OP has hidden the thread for her own sanity.

Blarting · 30/04/2022 20:08

@doveseternal baby was reported but because of overstretched services, they failed him,

Why do you think they are over stretched?

Because of people like you! That's why!

doveseternal · 30/04/2022 20:11

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Goldijobsandthe3bears · 30/04/2022 20:12

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You are such a reacher 🤣🤣

Blarting · 30/04/2022 20:14

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When you do an @, you need to put a name otherwise it doesn't register whom your talking to?

Assuming it's me, no I'm not?

I don't understand the relevance and if you think I am, saying you've hit a nerve is vile! You should be saying, sorry if that's the case?

You get worse abs worse by each comment.

Goldijobsandthe3bears · 30/04/2022 20:19

I can just picture this poster feverishly typing away and making errors in their haste to try and be incendiary when in fact they just sound unhinged at worst bored at best.

Blarting · 30/04/2022 20:23

@doveseternal looked at your other posts, it's a common topic with the "hit the wrong nerve" Shiite!

👋

Pumpupthejammin · 30/04/2022 20:34

@doveseternal Thanks. How awful.

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