He hasn’t actually spent endless time banging on about anything. As I said before we’ve got a
few hours of footage of them in years, a tiny percent of his life. And only some of that is Harry talking about family issues and therapy. So not much at all really.
As for the therapy, he has encouraged others to seek help if they’ve got through trauma. Therapy can make you feel like you can actually talk about your mental health after previously not being able to, therapy isn’t about getting you to deal with it silently. The benefit, as Harry sees it, has been that he can talk about things, see what is wrong and change that in the future in his own relationships. I believe that’s a good thing. Emotional sense to you is shutting up because granny is getting old. To say that therapy hasn’t worked because he’s talking about it too much is nothing short of ridiculous. I would imagine, Harrys therapy is an ongoing process. I would also imagine suffering the loss of his mother whilst living in the RF with their lack of emotion was very damaging. But only he will know that, there are certainly indicators of that being the case from things he’s said. It we don’t know him.
I really hate this thinking that people should shut up for the benefit of others even if it’s to the detriment of themselves. In my childhood, my mother left my father after years of abuse for us all. Me and sibling had to stay with a friend. My father threatened to burn the house down where we were staying, with us his children in it, unless my mother returned to him. All very traumatic for me aged 11. My mother returned with us and played happy families, we were to never mention it again. Years later, as an adult, I had therapy to deal with this and other aspects of an abusive childhood. I started to tell people, for the first time ever about what I’d gone through, family and friends and others that believed my father was a good man. For me, there’s a sense of wanting people to know the truth, and a wish that anyone going through similar would get the help that I found so helpful. The relief in not having to keep it to myself was huge. My mothers response, my mother that had been abused for years....’why are you telling people my business, what will people think of me’. It wasn’t only her business, it was my business, it affected me. She came up with every reason as to why it wasn’t the right time to tell anyone. Some family members sided with her, I should be quiet and stop causing trouble, accept what happened, move on, ‘if you’re so happy now, why are you going on about something from almost 20 years ago?’ my mother asked. ‘You can’t actually be happy as you wouldn’t be doing this, you’d get on with your life’. Similar to what posters here are saying and I think it’s awful.
Maybe he’s happy, maybe he’s not. Maybe he’s nice, maybe he’s not. But to base it on so little footage, a few comments, is ridiculous. The vast majority of the time, we don’t see him. There’s no right way to live your life, as long as you’re not breaking the law. He’s said a big problem was British media, and he’s moved away from them. He never took a vow of silence or said he’d never be seen again. The hatred toward him by certain posters is nothing short of weird. They seem to think they know him.