80swerethebest Each to their own and all that but when a male mentions a negative aspect of a females appearance they are labelled shallow misogynists yet men are fair game apparently.
Thats because women get negative comments about their appearance all the time and are judged heavily upon it. Yet as soon as they dare present a physical preference themselves, they are hauled over the coals because they are supposed to be open to dating anyone.
I just hope these same vacuous souls don't complain when males make similar comments about weight etc
I get negative comments about my appearance all the time. FWIW I think its because people think I can handle it - I used to do sports modelling but overall I'm pretty unremarkable looking really - size 10, 5 feet 9, long hair. I get told I'm "too tall" (for what exactly is unclear), to get a haircut, told I'm too chunky yet the next day I'll be told I'm too thin, told that I must have long legs no actually I have a long body but short legs, etc etc. Its never ending. When I tried internet dating, I was told that I would cheat because I'd been a model and one guy told me I was "too good looking and too intelligent" for him as he dumped me after our fourth date.
Whereas in my career (not modelling, the one I had to spend years qualifying in and building up my practice), I became conscious of how my choice of boyfriend could impact upon my reputation when an ex cheated on me with both a colleague and a friend, and word got round before I knew anything about it. Its a small world.
So, not vacuous, just careful to protect what I've spent my life working for in the best way I know how. That is not to say that there might not be some gem of a man out there with missing frontal teeth whose charm, wit and confidence might not overcome his lack of incisors, but given the OP's description, it seems a tad unlikely in this scenario.