to be annoyed DH wants me to have a boob job?

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I am not keen at all. I would however rather have my lines done. I am only 39 but quite lined already. I asked him if he would consider paying for me to have botox and he replied "no, but I will pay for a boob job" , should I be offended? I don't want a boob job though. I am feeling very sensitive tonight plus one to many sherbets.

yanbu - what a git!

YANBU
can barely express how YANBU
it's a horrible horrible painful operation and to go through all that for someone else?

Was he joking?

He can pay for mine if he wants, lol.

Tell him you'll do it after he has a penis extension.

Tell him you'll have a boob job if he has his penis enlarged ...

Snap, CT

one of my best friends had one for herself! she was unattached at the time.

she had it done through her navel and has no regrets.

but for someone else?

NO WAY.

Great minds, eh?

No, he seriously want me to have bigger boobs. I am more worried about my lines. I am a 36b btw so not big but not small.

omg, expat, you can have aboon job through your navel???

obviously that was supposed to say a boob job!!! not aboon job

tell him to have a knob job first

she did, cloud!

Through her navel?!?! Am intruiged. I would have one done for myself (purely to combat the post pregnancy/breastfeeding drop not to become a page 3 type) but never at anothers request.

through her navel? I considered one a few years ago but the surgeon talked me out of it. He said you never know what the long term affect will be. I've learnt to live with been flat chested.

Erm - how was it said? I mean, if it was said in a jocular way as in "you don't need botox silly woman, but how about big boobs for me Phnar phnar" then I would say, bad taste but that's all.

If he said it as in, "I will only pay for stuff that I want you to have and I want you to have bigger boobs" then yes he is being a git!

You don't clearly say that you are against the idea....why not make a deal: have him pay for both?

must type faster!

IMO, never do something for someone else that you would not do for yourself - ie, if you would have had a boob job at some point and you are happy with it, then fine. If you would not have then a big fat NO is required!

Well I am a 36b and a size 10-12 so my breasts are in proportion to my size/body so I am happy with them but DH LOVES big breasts. I would love my lines done though.

it sounds as though it was a bit of a joke, maybe a little insensetive.

I'd be pretty annoyed depending on how it was said, was it a joke? I mean atm I'm pg so my knockers are rather large and DP goes oooooooonnnnnnnnnnnn about them, but I don't think he means anything bad by it, if he was actually being insulting I'd be fuming.

oh yuck oh yuck oh yuck!!!!!!!!
In response to op....you are definitely not being unreasonable!

Oh and I know erm 8 people that have ahd boob jobs so the popularity of them is forever on the up, maybe he knows of a lot of people that have and thought you mgiht?

YANBU (I feel full of loathing towards your DH fo being such a twunt).