Sex with someone 20yrs younger would you do it?

[fruityloopy]

I’m a single 48yr old Mum of one.. I’ve been propositioned by a guy who I’ve chatted to a few times in the pub. I’m not entirely sure how old he is but probably late 20’s maybe 30.
I’m not after a relationship but just wondering am I unreasonable (or completely mad!) to consider it?

@GahAndTheBear

No. I couldn’t. I’m only 19 years older than my eldest son though, which is definitely a factor in my thoughts on this.

That said, lots of men think nothing of shagging women as young as or younger than their daughters.

Oh don't even, I found out after I first slept with my baby's father (he's 20 yrs older) that his first daughter (he had at 17) is actually older than me😳. Me being me at the time I didn't care, now looking back I find it very weird!

Yes. My partner has just turned 26 and I’m 44. Works for us

No because I have a son the same age and I just couldn't go there - I'd be thinking of them as someone's son rather than a man in their own right!

But it's legal, so you do you OP!

I think it is creepy AF.

Yes, you're OK to have sex with a consenting adult.

HTh.

They would be 13 so no, obviously.

However if I were 40+ I would, why not!

@SNUG2022

Only in the dark

🤣

I wouldn’t because it would be rape. But in my mid 40’s definitely

It’s been that long, I wouldn’t know what to do with him

My current fwb is 19 years younger than me, so yea, I would!

At the moment I wouldn't as they'd be 8

However if it's between two consenting adults then go for it. Sometimes sex can just be a bit of fun.

I'm your age. Wouldn't even think twice about it if I fancied him and he seemed keen on me too!

If you're not fussed on him yourself, send him round to mine!!!

No

I’m around enough men in the 20/early 30’s I don’t find them attractive at all (I can see they are)

I don’t want to be the older lover either I find it an absolute turn off

No definitely not, because they would be only 16 in my case. 10 years younger though, around 26? Yeah I totally would if I was single and attracted to them!

Not for me. I’m not attracted to younger men, but then I never was. I’ve always found men in their 40s attractive. It’s highly probable that I still will when I’m in my sixties though.

I certainly did when I was online dating years back although I was having fun not planning to live together. I probably wouldn't again because younger men aren't as emotionally resilient in my experience but that could have been down to personalities and I see other posters have had lads who were fine about things being casual. Late twenties really isn't that "young" anyway.

I’m married and love DH v much, so no but if I was single then definitely! I’m sure it would be pretty amazing! Go for it OP

Oh god yes! I had a couple of dalliances with a 26 year old when I was 46. It was purely for fun and I had a great time.

Nothing wrong with it but not for me. I just don't find men that age sexually attractive.

No, but I would not necessarily object to sex with someone 20 years older.

Been there, done it, thoroughly did not enjoy, mainly because it was as awkward as I'd told him it would be! I felt very weird, because I'd known him for a good few years. He was proper fit though so had to give it a go! 🤣

@Halllyup17

Now imagine an almost 50 year old bloke asking if it's ok to sleep with a woman in her 20s.

You'd all be horrified.

Why? That's 2 consenting adults for goodness sake. When I was 25 I had a fantastic sexual relationship with a 52 year old man. Still great friends 25 years later.

@LynetteScavo

I think half your age plus 7 is a good minimum standard, so he'd have to be at least 31.

This is the kind of thing 13 year olds come up with. Complete tripe.

No, they would be too close to my sons ages which would seem icky to me.

Yes, im 50, so they wouldn’t be indecently young or anywhere close to the age of my DCs.