Let me know the good things about being single please

[Robinred81]

I’ve recently come out of a marriage and am trying to get my head around being single. Please tell me what you enjoy about it.
So far the only thing I can come up with is not having to share a bed

Robin the few times I've gone from living with someone to not its gone.

1st week Cry and feel sad for a week and don't really eat.
2nd week, cry and drink gin
3rd week, friends come over a lot and drink gin
4th week - oo I've lost weight, start exercising and start going out with friends again.

After that I stop drinking, find happiness in friendships and exercise and come out the other side. I'm not suggesting you follow my terribly unhealthy way to get over a man but that's what I do.

This time it's taken me 3 months. It doesn't ever take this long for me but I was/am gutted about getting a divorce. I've made lots of happy non drinking plans with friends recently which is good but I have sciatica so can't exercise like I would have.