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To think nobody really likes oysters?

194 replies

buddylicious · 07/03/2022 21:06

(Lighthearted)

We were just watching a tv programme where somebody was eating oysters.

A friend who was here said "I don't believe anyone really likes oysters. They only eat them because they are pretentious".

I've tried them a few times and I'm not a great fan.

Was my friend right? 😜

OP posts:
PoshWatchShitShoes · 08/03/2022 08:20

I love them. Now I'm thinking I need to eat oysters next time we go out for dinner!!

Lightstoobright · 08/03/2022 08:20

Just wanted to check that everyone does know that oysters are ALIVE when you eat them?
That changed it for me.

HELLITHURT · 08/03/2022 08:21

@Lightstoobright

Just wanted to check that everyone does know that oysters are ALIVE when you eat them? That changed it for me.
Yep, knew that.
HoppingPavlova · 08/03/2022 08:23

Love them. Just a splash of fresh lemon juice. Delicious, esp the ones with big creamy centres.

Lurking9to5 · 08/03/2022 08:25

You're right. Like snot going down the back of yr throat was my thought the first and last time i tried them.

Ill try anything once but normally wouldnt rule out a second try so categorically

Lurking9to5 · 08/03/2022 08:28

@itsnotdeep

I agree, the Emperor's New Clothes of food.

No one can admit to it, but they're basically little pieces of snot.

Yupp
merrymelodies · 08/03/2022 08:31

I love oysters! I would eat them every day if I could. They're delicious, especially with a small squeeze of lemon.

Bedsheets4knickers · 08/03/2022 08:34

We had them in New York on our first night . It's just weird swallowing and lump of < insert what you want here > and getting the benefit of lemon and Tabasco sea water .
I won't bother again.

angieloumc · 08/03/2022 08:59

@WutheringHeights66

Not true. DH is incredibly unpretentious and he loves them. The freshness, the taste of the sea, with a squeeze of lemon or shallot vinegar.

This is a man that grew up in a council house eating Colmans sausage casserole.

I don’t like them, but he will choose them in a fish restaurant followed by beer battered fish, chips and mushy peas so no pretentiousness just a love of things he likes.

Your husband might be unpretentious but you're definitely not. How dreadful that he grew up in a council house and had Colman's!
youdoyoutoday · 08/03/2022 09:04

I'm not a fan having tried them before but I'll wolf down mussels 😋

I was really shocked when my friends 2 kids, 8 and 9, were tucking in to oysters on their day out!! My 8yo would run screaming to social services if I offered him oysters or mussels!!

appleturnovers · 08/03/2022 09:14

@MerryMarigold

I've noticed that everyone who 'loves them' hasn't said why. There really is nothing to love. Slimy, salty... 🤔.... maybe the aphrodisiac aspect is in the similarity to swallowing semen.
I have grown to enjoy the slimy, gooey texture, as well as the salty, fishy taste, in combination with the taste of the lemon juice or vinegar and shallots.

It’s a texture you can’t really find in any other food, so when I’m eating one I feel like it’s one-off experience I need to savour.

i was told that in France they say it’s like “snogging the sea”, which I find simultaneously disturbing and fascinating..l

AlwaysLatte · 08/03/2022 09:15

I love them!

OverByYer · 08/03/2022 09:16

Snogging the sea describes it perfectly!

HaggisBurger · 08/03/2022 09:20

[quote Erinyes]**@HaggisBurger* and @HELLITHURT*, I was actually thinking of the Galway one, bu Clarenbridge works too! (The Cork one is more Murphy’s than Guinness…)[/quote]
Is Clarenbridge not the Galway one? It’s in Galway, no? I didn’t know there was a Cork one too. Mmmmm

onemouseplace · 08/03/2022 09:20

I love them - so does DH. A friend got married in Whitstable and had an oyster and champagne bar and DH and I basically hung out there.

Normandy144 · 08/03/2022 09:29

I love them and I'm definitely not pretending to be pretentious. I'm fairness though they are an acquired taste and I didn't like them when I tried them when I was in my teens. I tried them again in my twenties and I don't know maybe my palate had changed but I liked them and have ever since. I've always liked mussels, clams etc. I don't think you can beat the fresh taste of them. Nothing quite like a plate of oysters by the sea.

Erinyes · 08/03/2022 09:35

@HaggisBurger, my understanding (which is vague, as I’m vegetarian and haven’t eaten seafood of any kind since my teens) is that Clarenbridge was the location of the original Galway Oyster Festival, but split off as a separate entity at some point…?

HELLITHURT · 08/03/2022 09:38

@HaggisBurger I think the Cork one is not on this year, after further research it would seem the last one was 2020 :-(

NoHunGosh · 08/03/2022 09:42

Only tried them once. The experience felt like sucking up someone else's big lump of phlegm from the sea.

HappyDays40 · 08/03/2022 09:42

Snot in a shell

Erinyes · 08/03/2022 09:43

[quote HELLITHURT]@HaggisBurger I think the Cork one is not on this year, after further research it would seem the last one was 2020 :-([/quote]
There will be the Kinsale Gourmet one, which is pretty seafood-focused, I imagine.

HRTQueen · 08/03/2022 09:46

I don’t get the love of them gristly giant bogey with a slight fishy taste Confused

I was in a restaurant recently and the lady on the next table was eating live sea urchin now that I really don’t understand apparently it’s delicious 🤢

Wallabyone · 08/03/2022 10:04

I've eaten them when out but I don't love them. I read somewhere that 1 in 10 oysters contain norovirus and since then I don't really eat them.

I love all seafood and fish, including eel and whelks, mussels and prawns, but I'm just not keen on the likelihood of getting sick with oysters!

beautifulsay · 08/03/2022 10:08

I really love them and I'm not just saying that ! It's something about the after taste. I can't explain it, but I love it. Initially I thought they were gross too, but now I can't get enough.

Caviar as well. Absolutely delicious and moorish. Literally can't get enough. I sometimes treat myself to caviar / oysters and champagne at harrods. Yum yum.

Momijin · 08/03/2022 10:10

I love them but cooked. I prefer raw fish usually (sashimi and in sushi) but oysters are so much nicer cooked - in soup, nabe or deep fried.