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To be tired of negative comments about curly hair?

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nothingbutsnow · 05/03/2022 15:44

Just reading a thread from last year in Style & Beauty.
Most posters agreeing that 'curly hair is ageing' or 'most people look unhinged with curly hair'
Usual insults include 'mad art teacher', 'old hippy', 'mad ferret', etc.

And then there's the assumption that all curls belong in the 80's, or it is notoriously difficult to make natural curls look good.

And don't get me started on frizz. Apparently this is only ever a bad thing, and can't be an actual hair texture. So anyone who was born with hair that has a tendency to frizz (basically, porous hair) needs to get rid of it immediately or you'll look old, tired, terrible.
Spend hundreds on cosmetic shite to counteract it.

Anyone else sick to death of this? I don't even have curly hair but I think it's all a bit repressing. It's like current attitudes (for past 20 odd yrs now) are really straight laced and austere - anything considered wild, bohemian or flamboyant is BAD. Colourful is bad. Curls and wild, natural hair are bad! Some of these attitudes go much further than mere fashion trends.
Psychologically speaking, I actually think it says a lot about contemporary attitudes in our culture; an inability to relax, be natural or to even slightly digress from a somewhat conservative, fixed set of rules. And i also think this segues into other parts of life too, such as shopping, housing, life choices. It's all so very uptight and judgemental, and I do wish we could have some sort of renaissance of true diversity and going with the flow!

Well, I went from curly hair to a collapsed culture pretty quick there Grin

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PinkSyCo · 06/03/2022 14:07

Don't know about shampoo as I don't use it, but the Sainsburys own brand apple conditioner, the Alberto Balsam raspberry one, and the Aldi volumising one in the blue bottle are all under £1, silicone free and great for curls.

Ooh I will put them on my shopping list. Thank you!

Squeezyhug · 06/03/2022 22:41

@Ionacat
I agree. I had my hair straightened once. It took the hairdresser ages and she was getting exasperated. I went home and got negative reactions from everyone, saying straight hair aged me about 10 years.
I agreed and washed it immediately. I looked awful with straight hair.
Definitely look younger with curls.

Nubbled · 06/03/2022 22:46

Shaving head as I type

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