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*@Baileys123* - I guess it depends on so many factors.
1 - spunk viscosity - some men, much more, um, fluid than others!
2 - female production - women all produce more or less stuff depending on person, cycle, age etc etc etc
3 - where on the bed. On the bottom edge of the bed is one thing. At the top end, hips near pillows, quite another
4 - size/ age of child. 52cm newborn, or giant 2 yr old who wears size 4 clothes and goes roaming around the bed!
As you can imagine, all this is just my personal experience, but bottom of the bed with guy who has minimal "output", followed by bringing newborn into new. That's one thing.
Up against bedhead/ pillows with extra- volume man, when I was at my most... fluid, with a2 year old popping in to chat with soggy mess at shoulder level when lying down. Absolutely not.
These absolute reactions don't allow for the many and varied experiences we all have (or don't).
Meanwhile, I once had a boyfriend who insisted on me lying on a towel.
He also colour coded his wardrobe, and turned all the tins to face the right way in the kitchen, so, you know, not a very relaxed guy all around.
Horses for courses. Or squirrels.🐿