Aibu to ask what you got for Valentines day?

[3Daddy31982]

I got a lobster biscuits and multicoloured rose, bunch of red roses in a vase, a valentines day balloon, a balloon that's red and says love. Also Indian tea x

I eventually got a card and a muffin . I asked if that was seriously the best gift he could find and he just gave me an embarrassed look. I haven't given him his gift because this isn't the first time he's made no effort (usually Mother's Day and Valentine's Day - I don't expect much but it's the lack of even an acknowledgment that pisses me off). I had a c-section 10 days ago and I've managed to sort a card and gift so I don't think he has any excuse.

He's cooking us a nice meal tonight but if I hadn't sorted it out, he'd have probably cooked me fish fingers and chips. He's not usually useless, just seems to be when it comes to dates that require him to acknowledge me.

A cheese hamper. He knows me so well!

Me and DP totally forgot until I saw all the posts on Facebook this morning, rang him at work to say I’d completely forgotten so hadn’t got him anything, his reply was “oh thank fuck for that coz I forgot aswell, shall we get a dominos tonight”
He’s definitely the one!

Lovely flowers delivered in a vase, bottle of Prosecco and a card.
I got him his favourite chocolates, a card and a Chinese takeaway.
This was over the weekend - he's away with work tonight.

We celebrated a few days ago as we couldn't today due to work commitments.
He got my grandmothers typewriter repaired for me and bought me a heart shaped box of chocolates. I thought that would be it but he also surprised me with a gorgeous necklace and matching bracelet.

Nothing - he’s away on holiday too, so I’m alone.

Treating myself to a face mask, hair mask and a night in front of the TV

A lovely card and a trip to the garden centre where we chose some flowering plants for the garden which will last and bloom for the next 364 days ... and we will both love seeing them grow and thrive every day

Ferrero rocher and flowers

Nothing. We can buy shit that we don't need or do food shopping. The kids make their dad a love card and phoned people they live to tell them.

@TheGratefulBread

A cheese hamper. He knows me so well!

What a thoughtful gift.

My husband and I don't celebrate valentines as I celebrate with my parents as this is the day they adopted me 30 years ago

A card, bunch of daffodils, box of chocs and bottle of champagne. We've ate the chocolates and have left the champagne for the weekend.

Nothing as we don't bother with it too much, dh turn to cook dinner tonight though so thats a bonus I suppose

A card - I got him a Poundland Twin Peaks bar, fruit and nut too ;-)

Proper bouquet from florist and a card. Meal out

Mug of tea and a wispa.

My dd got me x2 bars of chocolate,a box of my fave chocs,a notebook and a candle she's lovely bless her

Should add-she's 16 and it's my first valentines on my own since her dad left.

Nothing here. We don't celebrate it. I'd do something to mark the occasion if I could be bothered cooking etc but I can't haha. I wouldn't buy anything though.

@sarah13xx

A card and a big bag of mini eggs (I like mini eggs) 😂 #spoiled

Love mini eggs - was it the family sized bag - fab

@Wakemeuuuup

A card and we're getting a lovely takeaway. We've been together almost 30 years and gave up on gifts for valentines a long time ago.

My parents who will be 60 years married this year have gone to their favourite hotel which I think is lovely

That's so lovely re your Parents - don't forget to order the card from the Queen for their 60th

I thought I was getting F all, but then he cooked me pasta for dinner so I can't complain really.

Ahh that's lovely @joysmoy66

All we hope for as our kids grow up is that they are genuinely nice, thoughtful people. Looks like you've done well there

Lobster biscuits?!

Wonderful chocolates that are late