@boombastic22 yes I am real, I realise I am very lucky and I don't take anything for granted. We have made our own money and had no family help.
I have just been on the 'regrets' thread and feel very sad that there is a lot of misery that people have to live with day by day.
I work in mental health and I believe that good mental health is more important than all the material things in the world put together.
If you find it difficult to appreciate a sunny day, a smile, a warm pair of slippers and take for granted lovely people and friends then it doesn't matter how rich or poor you are, your life will be coloured by negativity.
Having positive mental health is so invaluable because it allows you to dream and if you don't have a dream how can a dream come true.
When I was little our family life was very sad and tragic ( my brother took his own life) and it was shadowed by my parents' poor mental health.
I knew from an early age I needed to make decisions in life that would have a positive impact on me.
So I kept to that path, always looking forward to tomorrow if the day or the past had been crap. Happy, positive people were like radiators to me and I was inspired by kindness.
I avoided toxic people probably because I had developed an allergy to them by being uncomfortable around them.
I am inspired by 80- 100 year old marathon runners, gymnasts and athletes and want to be like them one day.
A positive mental outlook is priceless.