I live in NI, from a unionist background although from a mixed area, in a mixed relationship and went to an integrated school and only go to church for weddings and funerals so can't claim to represent the unionist or Protestant community.
I think we do need to move on as a nation, and that process has started but the same old people keep dragging us back. The government should do their investigations, make their apologies, pay their dues and get it wrapped up so we can look forward. For those saying 'but the IRA' - you cannot seriously think the government should be held accountable to the same standards as a terrorist organisation?
Growing up I was told that a unites Ireland was something to fear, we'd be treated as second class citizens and so on. As an adult I realise that's just total nonsense, no doubt people believed it at the time because of the segregation that existed then but this is 2022. And when I see Britain handing other nations their independence back I think it is truly bizarre that they keep a hold on Northern Ireland.
I hate that people act like we're all a bunch of dickheads who need either the UK or ROI to take responsibility for us. The majority of us are just normal people who grew up in a nation divided by civil war and the responsibility for that rests at the feet of the British government.