By the way, wakes were definitely banned during lockdown 1
Yes, and restricted for much longer too.
I sadly went to 3 funerals between March and July 2020 (fil, and both my grandmothers) - all 3 were subject to restrictions.
FIL - max 10 people, socially distanced, in the funeral itself. No wake or gathering permitted at all.
Grandma 1 - can't remember how many by no more than 25 people at the funeral allowed, all socially distanced. No wake or gathering allowed after, I was able to attend via Zoom.
Grandma 2 - think we were allowed 30 (possibly 25) at that point including at a reception or wake afterwards, with rule of 6 and socially distancing in place, plus masks.
So, why was Bj and his mates allowed to have a social gathering, with the purpose being to enjoy the nice weather, with several people attending, not socially distanced, no masks, etc when we couldn't even share a drink and sandwiches with FIL's friends after his funeral?