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AIBU curmudgeonly husband telling me off

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crispsarny · 26/12/2021 23:20

Husband very comfortable with loud music (former DJs) live in detached, no kids, I let air horn off when heavy tune dropped, he turned into dad. It’s Boxing Day, letting my hair down, after me calling him a hypocrite, many sweary words, he flounced off to bedroom. AIBU to continue with very loud DnB & Jungle along with drinks & dancing around the living room like a maniac, while he sulks?

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user290814356289 · 27/12/2021 00:13

Crack on op! Wish I lived near you - I would join you.

GoodPrincessWenceslas · 27/12/2021 00:14

What does "a heavy tune dropped" mean?

gettingto · 27/12/2021 00:18

😆😆😆

Ffion85 · 27/12/2021 00:18

😂😂

gettingto · 27/12/2021 00:19

Jungle is massive!

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:19

@Tittyfilarious81

If you aren't bothering any neighbors and you love it and it makes you feel good dance and blow the air horn til your hearts content 🥳
Wine Smile
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crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:20

@gettingto

Jungle is massive!
junglist massive Grin
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Ffion85 · 27/12/2021 00:21

@LilyTheMink

Can I come over?
Can I come too?
crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:21

@GoodPrincessWenceslas

What does "a heavy tune dropped" mean?
A song/tune that you absolutely love that fills you with joy Smile
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Thebestusername1 · 27/12/2021 00:22

I am jealous just home from work had a few gins wanted to have a mini party with my dh and listen to rave music but we watched dont look up instead on netflix now lying in bed a wee bit tipsy hes snoring and I am emotional 😂

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:22

@Ffion85 all welcome Grin

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crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:24

@Thebestusername1

I am jealous just home from work had a few gins wanted to have a mini party with my dh and listen to rave music but we watched dont look up instead on netflix now lying in bed a wee bit tipsy hes snoring and I am emotional 😂
oh lol I will ‘have it large’ for you best - just about to drop another filthy tune & have another drink Grin cheers me dear x
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gettingto · 27/12/2021 00:25

What does "a heavy tune dropped" mean?

One of your favourite songs has come on

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:25

@user290814356289

Crack on op! Wish I lived near you - I would join you.
Wine
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gettingto · 27/12/2021 00:25

enjoy!

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:26

@Bloodypunkrockers

An air horn. Like Sara fucking Cox uses with her godawful wowowowowowow
I do like punk as well
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StormBaby · 27/12/2021 00:27

What’s your address I’ll come join the party?

Yellowshirt · 27/12/2021 00:28

I reckon your Sat there in your pjs sipping warm milk

Burnamer · 27/12/2021 00:34

I’m your age and had a chocolate biscuit and a cup of decaf tea. I’d HATE my neighbours if they used an air horn.
You sound a bit OTT tbh but I like your vocabulary so on this occasion I’m in! Pass me a whistle.

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:34

@Yellowshirt

I reckon your Sat there in your pjs sipping warm milk
hahahaha no not yet, think I’ll be going on like this for a while yet (will most likely be drinking much tea tomorrow though) My only regret is that I don’t do enough of this, it is of great shame to me that I am unable to get outside & function normally in everyday life, this will have to do for now though (I am getting help with addressing agoraphobia etc)
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MrsToothyBitch · 27/12/2021 00:35

This sounds great fun, don't let the sulky man spoil your junglist massive, but have to say I'm you're not my neighbour. I have anxiety, flinch or jump at pretty much everything atm and the air horn would give me palpitations! Grin

Toomanyradishes · 27/12/2021 00:47

I have no children and no airhorn, im either doing sex or shopping wrong

crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:47

@falalalalalalalallama

But more importantly, what was the tune? (Love a bit of jungle Grin).
(is dnb though not jungle, still good tune, spot the david bowie sample)
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crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:51

@MrsToothyBitch

This sounds great fun, don't let the sulky man spoil your junglist massive, but have to say I'm you're not my neighbour. I have anxiety, flinch or jump at pretty much everything atm and the air horn would give me palpitations! Grin
Yeah I get that I have CPTSD but grab the occasions with dear life when I can let go (very rarely & random, Christmas day was a different story)
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crispsarny · 27/12/2021 00:52

@Toomanyradishes

I have no children and no airhorn, im either doing sex or shopping wrong
Grin
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