AIBU curmudgeonly husband telling me off

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Husband very comfortable with loud music (former DJs) live in detached, no kids, I let air horn off when heavy tune dropped, he turned into dad. It’s Boxing Day, letting my hair down, after me calling him a hypocrite, many sweary words, he flounced off to bedroom. AIBU to continue with very loud DnB & Jungle along with drinks & dancing around the living room like a maniac, while he sulks?

I wondered what jungle music was. That kind of music sends me into a rage. There’s probably a psychological explanation 🤔

Do you have a gong?

@falalalalalalalallama

But more importantly, what was the tune? (Love a bit of jungle ).

Right there with ya sister!!! OP - you go for it girl! Let him have his man sulk and don’t let it spoil your fun!!!!

@Livpool

All fine apart from the air horn. But then if you have one I suppose you are going to use it

Exactly, he wanted the bloody air horn, it’s standard issue for an old skool DJ, even got back up canisters which he brags about hahaha

@HikingforScenery

I wondered what jungle music was. That kind of music sends me into a rage. There’s probably a psychological explanation 🤔

Is great for releasing anger & tension

@SimpsonsXmasBoogie

Do you have a gong?

No but you’re giving me ideas

I love the ‘see all OP posts’ function.

Are you 46 or 42?

Or just so into it you’ve forgotten?

I’m ‘lof a generation and I’d be in there with the tunes but the air horn maybe not so much.

Enjoy!

You're listening to Jungle and D&B cranked to 11 while posting on Mumsnet? I feel like there's some rich people somewhere that would pay to see this as performance art

Oh give over we get massive fireworks here every day, all hours, quad bikes going around & all sorts, neighbours cats shitting & pissingnover our gardens & cars, kids climbing over our fences, dogs trying to eat us, fence paint on our car etc, etc. I let the air horn off for a second, having fun, living our life, alongside others, live & let live, not hurting anyone ffs. We all need to learn to just rub alongside each other in this fooked up world.

Can't think why this sounds like a certain level of hell in which to exist.

"neighbours cats shitting & pissingnover our gardens & cars"

How do they do it on the cars? Do they have pogo sticks?

That music is awful by the way! I'm 40. But they didn't play that in my clubbing days in Lincoln!

Yes yes, nuff love, you might like this @WineIsMyMainVice

@WrongWayApricot

You're listening to Jungle and D&B cranked to 11 while posting on Mumsnet? I feel like there's some rich people somewhere that would pay to see this as performance art

Quite 🤣

@Yellowshirt

That music is awful by the way! I'm 40. But they didn't play that in my clubbing days in Lincoln!

awwww never mind, you might like the last one I posted, or do you like a bit of garage & 2 step?

I’m agoraphobic & very anxious

Anxious people & air horn are not usual bed fellows.

Presume the agoraphobia is recent-ish ?

@sadeyedladyofthelowlandsea

Oh give over we get massive fireworks here every day, all hours, quad bikes going around & all sorts, neighbours cats shitting & pissingnover our gardens & cars, kids climbing over our fences, dogs trying to eat us, fence paint on our car etc, etc. I let the air horn off for a second, having fun, living our life, alongside others, live & let live, not hurting anyone ffs. We all need to learn to just rub alongside each other in this fooked up world.

Can't think why this sounds like a certain level of hell in which to exist.

It’s not too bad tbh, outside of this it’s very peaceful, birds tweeting, I’ve lived in worse conditions

I'm just waiting for a comment to appear on the youtube link you posted

I've had to turn the music off. I feel old now at 40. Can't you dance to the top 40??

@NoSquirrels

I’m agoraphobic & very anxious

Anxious people & air horn are not usual bed fellows.

Presume the agoraphobia is recent-ish ?

No long time thing on/off, obviously pandemic made it worse, air horn is long standing thing with music I love, is always in a DJ’s box (some)

I wanna be there! Have your fun and if that means your DH sulks, so be it. Love the air horn!!!

@Checkthemeaning

You've given me a right giggle OP! I think you sound class - you only live once. He'll get over it! 😬

Happy Christmas

@NoSquirrels

I love the ‘see all OP posts’ function.

Are you 46 or 42?

Or just so into it you’ve forgotten?

I’m ‘lof a generation and I’d be in there with the tunes but the air horn maybe not so much.

Enjoy!

Thanks

If you aren't bothering any neighbors and you love it and it makes you feel good dance and blow the air horn til your hearts content 🥳

@WrongWayApricot

You're listening to Jungle and D&B cranked to 11 while posting on Mumsnet? I feel like there's some rich people somewhere that would pay to see this as performance art

OK?

If you’d have said a Vuvuzela I’d have said YANBU. Simply because I like the word.

Anyway, sounds to me like you are living your best life OP. You keep living it.