[quote Octavia174]@mellongoose
These life events are unusual and exceptional. I believe the vast majority of if parents can and should be wholly responsible for looking after, feeding and properly raising their children. I'm astounded that this is a controversial view in today's society
In an ideal world yes, but we don't live in one.
So whilst you might expect that, what to do when parents decide not to bring up and be responsible for their children?
31% of children, thats 4million! live in poverty here in the UK, based on this governments rational for what poverty means.
Thats a failure of the state, in education, wages and the benefits system.
I don't really see why the children of dysfunctional families should be punished for societies failure, all it does is guarantee the next generation of failed families.[/quote]
If you're using the 'relative poverty' figure, please don't. By definition you will always have a large percentage relatively poor compared to the average.
Absolutely poverty has gone down in recent years, although one child living in absolutely poverty is one too many. That is why there is a safety net of a welfare state.
Even then....parents are still responsible for ensuring their children are fed, clothed, sheltered, sent to school and taught right from wrong.
Some of the most deprived children I know grew to well rounded adults and ended up in fulfilling careers. Why? Because their parents, even though they had nothing, put their children's needs first and gave them confidence and ambition.