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To wonder how many Mumsnetters Mark Morriss has hit on?

113 replies

deeedeee · 18/11/2021 18:32

Strength in numbers. Well to Anna Wharton and the other 2 brave mums that have exposed him. There must be more ..

annawharton.substack.com/p/if-im-lying-come-sue-me

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JaneJeffer · 18/11/2021 18:35

I don't know what they saw in him Confused

deeedeee · 18/11/2021 18:35

*well done to Anna Wharton , I meant to say.

Remarkable article. Hope that her and her daughter are ok. If you’re reading this, respect and more power to you x

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deeedeee · 18/11/2021 18:39

He must be incredibly charming.

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minou123 · 18/11/2021 18:47

Had to Google because I didn't know who he was or The Bluetones - which leads me nicely into, no, not been hit on by him.

After goigling I do remember the song Slight Return, but thought of them more like a one-hit wonder.

Respect and power to Anna Wharton

shiningjustforyou · 18/11/2021 18:47

@JaneJeffer

I don't know what they saw in him Confused
What a weird fucking response.
Mousetown · 18/11/2021 19:07

@JaneJeffer

I don't know what they saw in him Confused
I don’t even know where to begin with this.

Do you say that to all victims of abuse?

Roominmyhouse · 18/11/2021 19:10

I’ve seen Mark and the Bluetones so many times. He was a very charming and witty frontman. Needless to say I won’t be again after this. He sounds like an utter arsehole, those poor women. I’m not surprised he’s a womaniser at all, but that article paints the story of a deeply unpleasant human being.

lazylinguist · 18/11/2021 19:13

What an unbelievable arsehole. I really like the Bluetones' music, but I don't think I'll fancy listening to it again now.

DismantledKing · 18/11/2021 19:15

Wow, what an absolute wanker.

fluffiphlox · 18/11/2021 19:22

I’ve never heard of either of them. I don’t suppose he’s interested in women in their 60s.

EishetChayil · 18/11/2021 19:25

@JaneJeffer

I don't know what they saw in him Confused

What a grim response.

Skeumorph · 18/11/2021 19:26

WOW.

Hahaha I always thought the bluetones were a tiny little bit shit, so I’m pleased about that now!

Skeumorph · 18/11/2021 19:28

Ooh sorry posted too soon!

She’s brave. I love the photo with them all together. Not to make too light and bouncy of a truly horrible situation, but that’s an amazing way to deal with this and her DD is a lucky wee thing with a mum like that.

JunoMcDuff · 18/11/2021 19:47

Yeah I loved the bluetones. Seen them many times. Used to fancy the pants off Mark, and he's very charming and charismatic. Not at all surprised he's a womaniser and a cheat but surprised about the abuse - I believe her though. Won't be listening to them again.

shiningjustforyou · 18/11/2021 19:54

@JunoMcDuff

Yeah I loved the bluetones. Seen them many times. Used to fancy the pants off Mark, and he's very charming and charismatic. Not at all surprised he's a womaniser and a cheat but surprised about the abuse - I believe her though. Won't be listening to them again.
Yeah exactly this.
deeedeee · 18/11/2021 19:56

Womanising and cheating is abuse though.

It’s child abuse as well as spousal abuse. It causes trauma and toxicity that cascades through generations.

It’s hideous

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Snoopylunchbox · 18/11/2021 20:09

Yeah, me. I didn't write this quote from Anna's blog, but I could have done - word for word:

I was involved with your ex, only for a few weeks, a number of years ago. I remember him telling me that he had a baby daughter with his ex so that might help work out chronology. Embarrassingly, I was one of these women who got chatting to him at one of his gigs and was a bit flattered by the attention since I was a ‘fan’. I feel quite ashamed about that now.

He told me at length about his 'crazy ex', and all the cruel ways that she kept his baby daughter from him. I'd just got out of an abusive and controlling relationship, and I thought we 'bonded' over our shared experiences. I was telling the truth about mine.

The other details in Anna's blog are sickening. What a vile man.

Sprostongreen21 · 18/11/2021 20:11

I’ve seen the bluetones and him solo over the years. He was a good frontman. He and the band have a very loyal following even in recent times and they and him are quite active still. I can imagine some of these fans being flattered by his attention.

He sounds like an awful man. No excuses. Glad they’ve got their stories together and out so he can’t gas light them any longer. .

BruiserWoods · 18/11/2021 20:13

I had to google him,. He's no oil painting.

Still, I've been love bombed by a narcissist so .................. not judging anybody taken in by his staggering works of great fiction.

BruiserWoods · 18/11/2021 20:15

@JaneJeffer

I don't know what they saw in him Confused
Well, I clearly agree with you, posted my post before I saw you were hung drawn and quartered, but part of being love bombed is the attraction. The men who love bombed me, I thought they were attractive. It's what makes it all so toxic. They know that. They play on it.
deeedeee · 18/11/2021 20:19

Snoopylunchbox, so sorry to hear that you were a victim of this horrible man too Flowers

So he hit on you when his daughter was a baby?

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AFS1 · 18/11/2021 20:26

Used to be a fan. Not after reading this.
I once got off with the guitarist. Later found out he was in a long-term relationship at the time, so cheating clearly runs in the band.

JaneJeffer · 18/11/2021 20:30

Thanks @BruiserWoods just because I questioned his attractiveness doesn't mean I condone his behaviour.

LimitIsUp · 18/11/2021 20:35

Also don't think you deserved a mauling for a throw away comment that might have been a little tone deaf but doesn't warrant quite so much censure

KristinAmandaThomas · 18/11/2021 20:43

I think it’s wrong to say he’s unattractive. Not that it’s the pertinent part of this thread. But he’s not bad looking.

I just read Anna’s article and I believe every word. Absolutely shameful that anyone can do what he did to her and those other women. I’m also gutted that some seriously formative years in my life were got through to a soundtrack of bluetones songs. Now all absolutely ruined for me. I’ve got CDs made for me by an ex with songs that sounded like they’d been written for me. Splitting with him was so bittersweet and knowing that the man singing those songs was such a vile narcissistic twat is making me feel sad.