@Deepat011051 do you think abusers go around abusing everyone they meet?
"Oh hi Mark - how are you today?"
"F off you *** dont speak to me!!" (Whilst pinning the person against the wall?!
Of course not that isnt going to happen with everyone they meet! They would be sectioned/imprisoned quite quickly otherwise.
What a stupid comment you made, and typical of apologists for abusers. It is why people like JS got away with vile abuse for so long, "oh I saw nothing", " well, he raised money for kids", "he was always the perfect gent to ME" etc. They construct a facade and know exactly who to present it to