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Can't we just send our kids to school and not have constant events or texts to think about

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monotonousmum · 11/11/2021 11:32

I probably am being a little unreasonable, but I can't be the only one who thinks like this.

Eldest started school in September....I say September but in reality it was a complicated mix of an hour one week, 2 hours the next, then a week of mornings (one day with lunch), finally starting full time first week of October. I was already wondering how anyone actually manages to work.

I work full time, as does my husband. 1 younger child in nursery. School only contact one parent for general day to day stuff, and that falls to me (which is another issue in itself).

So...each week I have anywhere between 5-20 texts from the school (don't park in the car park, don't forget it pj day next week, sponsorship money due yesterday, school photo day, school dinner reminder etc etc), a selection of emails (usually with attachments that are too long for text), some letters in the book bag, notes in the back or front of the reading record book.
Sometimes there is stuff on the school calendar which hasn't been mentioned elsewhere.

I'm totally overwhelmed. Some of the info is repeated in several places (e.g. text to tell us we've received an email about children in need), but just the amount of info was totally unexpected to me.

There's all sorts of sponsored events, dress up days, changes to snacks or schedules.

Can't I just drop my kid to school, they teach her to to read and write (among other things) and then I pick her up and ask her what she's had for lunch and what she learned?? (Not that she ever remembers either).

Is the school OTT or are they all like this? Am I the only one not coping?

OP posts:
HauntedPencil · 07/09/2023 10:48

Quick everyone send your kids back Louise5676382&) off the internet has spoken.

Blueink · 07/09/2023 11:54

All the same I would say, reflecting different modes and ease of communication we have now as obviously all went by letters before.

Inkanta · 07/09/2023 15:07

Agree OP. Bloody ridiculous. It's also very weird and on the verge of harassment bombarding parents with letters and pressure to give money and give to charity. The priority is learning to read / write / sums and play time.

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